I feel anxiety when I’m not with boyfriend

I feel anxiety to the point where I feel calm when I am with him, but when we’re apart I feel anxious and being to overthink his feelings and intentions towards me. I feel fearful he will leave me, but at the same time I am still dealing with ROCD thoughts like what if this doesn’t work out or what if I’m just with him because I’m so attached to him, and I still question my feelings for him. It is so tiring waking up and going to sleep thinking about it. I just want to sleep to ignore it all.

Username: tortugu88

Date posted: Yesterday

I feel like I have separation anxiety/abandonment issues, with a phat side serving of ROCD. It’s a horrible mixture.

Username: Jesskil

Date posted: Yesterday

Same, this is happening rn. More than 24 hours without physically seeing them and I start thinking the very work— they never liked me enough, they aren’t good enough, they will leave me anyway… and then I start writing breakup texts. I wish my body would just calm downnnn

Username: norx

Date posted: Yesterday

I feel the same way. When I’m with my bf I have some intrusive thoughts but they’re easier to re direct and they don’t come up as often. We’re long distance so it’s hard to not feel anxious