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princessmcdoubleprincessmcdo...
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- 3y
oh honey, im so sorry. for one, definitely drop that friend. two, you know you love your boyfriend and that you’re attracted to him, your friend may have given her opinion but thats the thing, it’s HER opinion, not yours. dont allow her words and overall negativity enter your brain and control you and your thoughts, don’t give her that power. she doesn’t have that control over you, so don’t let her seep into your choices. try looking at pictures of you and your boyfriend together or call him, talk to him, and remind yourself why you love him and how much you are attracted to him.
Sero82Sero82
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- 3y
Thank you so much for your words and advice! I'm honestly feeling very emotional. I didn't think she was going to say something like that, and she seemed genuinely shocked that I said I love him. She seemed like she appeared very apologetic but I don't know if I should give her the opportunity of a second chance at this point in time. I felt like we connected as friends and now that's out the window. But you're right that it is her opinion, and it means nothing to me. I appreciate the reminder.
princessmcdoubleprincessmcdo...
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- 3y
@Sero82 i feel like she will continue to say things that will send you spiraling. i understand you feel emotional, it’s hard to cope when people insult us and the ones we love while also dealing with OCD and other struggles. your feelings are valid. i hope you feel better soon!
princessmcdoubleprincessmcdo...
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- 3y
provide yourself with that reassurance !
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