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But being honest- I know this is a hard one but we have to remember that everyone loves uniquely and that is OKAY!!! I would say: to honestly verbalize, even if it feels needy, that you would like flowers Finally toward the end of my spiral, I asked him and here came some bouquets of flowers. I used to get really stuck on “well I wouldn’t have to ask if he actually loved me” + “well I want to feel loved by not having to ask” Those are normal and honest thoughts, but since we all love uniquely, that may not be the way he shows love. But that doesn’t mean, that that won’t change we do for love, but more importantly, we learn for love. So let him learn how you would like to be loved better by this.

BAHAHAHAHA- this was one of mine for literally 2 months😍😍

Do you ever repeat urself to much , like u want to make sure it’s in there brain so u keep reminding them just in case they forget? So this is what I basically did and it somewhat escalated because I got mad and we started going off and I said we should break up (which I tend to say a lot which I know isn’t right because I always regret it so we didn’t break up) .. we calmed down after and had a talk and yeah it’s okay now .