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Sadness and the Bible
TW - feeling sad for life? Paul said that he had "unceasing sorrow". Will I always be sad about these things that are making me sad, even if I stop obsessing over it?
TW - feeling sad for life? Paul said that he had "unceasing sorrow". Will I always be sad about these things that are making me sad, even if I stop obsessing over it?
In what scripture ?! We can’t take parts of the scripture out of context..
The Bible also talks about the peace that surpasses understanding. And I may not know what verse you’re referencing, but I know this if nothing else. We may sorrow for all of our time on this broken earth, but in Heaven there will be no more sorrow, or pain, or death, or sin and any of its other consequences. Only joy forevermore. And, I sincerely doubt Paul meant that he never stopped feeling sorrowful, and more than when he thought of whatever it was, the level of sorrow he had never changed/lessened, though I’m no expert. Try Bibleref.com with the verse that’s troubling you. I do it all the time, and reading an analysis from people much more well versed in scripture than I am, and who understand better the original context and such, is always really helpful to me when I’m confused or panicking over a verse I don’t understand.
@Anonymous I love that scripture about surpasses understanding. I always feel a kind of peace I can’t explain after I prayed for help ! Nice one ❤️
Here's the context. I didn't get the exact wording down in the original post, but I think I was pretty close "I speak the truth in Christ—I am not lying, my conscience confirms it through the Holy Spirit— I have great sorrow and unceasing anguish in my heart. For I could wish that I myself were cursed and cut off from Christ for the sake of my people, those of my own race, " Romans 9:1-3 It seems to me that there are certain sad things that are difficult to process and things in which people find they are still sad about to some degree decades later, like for example the fact people will go to hell, including loved ones.
Ok I have done research on the scripture but is a long one ..
And yes is things that are totally sad and is natural especially a death of a loved one !! I do read the Bible and I don’t believe people suffer after death . Have a look at Ecclesiastes 9:5-7 For the living know that they will die, but the dead know nothing at all, nor do they have any more reward, because all memory of them is forgotten. 6 Also, their love and their hate and their jealousy have already perished, and they no longer have any share in what is done under the sun. 7 Go, eat your food with rejoicing, and drink your wine with a cheerful heart, for already the true God has found pleasure in your works.
So they don’t know anything like in a deep sleep !! And the dead I believe will come back to life . The resurrections in the Bible were just evidence that is possible like on the past so in the future . Even for people who made serious mistakes like the criminal who was on the cross next to Jesus ! Jesus promised him life in the kingdom. God is Love 🤗
So on the actual scripture in Romans 9:3 Paul is here using a form of hyperbole or exaggeration to express his willingness to on himself the curse from God that awaited his brothers unbelieving Jews , for rejecting the promised Messiah(Jesus ). Paul’s point is that he was willing to do everything within his power to help them to avail themselves of Gods means of salvation !
I'm Christian and I struggle with being close to god a lot but lately I just feel like I will never near a full relationship with god because of this not only that my heart physically hurts because I think about how I want god to allow me to get married and have kids but I don't think that's his will for me I feel like it will never happen and my heart hurts thinking about it and even if god does allow that blessing to come my way l'm afraid I'm going to end up hurting my husband or committing adultery and I'm afraid how he would react to my past and old relationship and ocd I don't think it will ever go away not because I don't think god is powerful enough I know he is I just think he wants that to be my story for the glory of his name and because it keeps me close to him idk I just my heart hurts thinking about not being married and not having kids but l'm trying to accept that in case that isn't his will for me it just really hurts my heart physically im thinking of starting therapy but im scared it wont do anything or God will get upset with me that I couldn’t do it with just him i got put back on pills and im gonna end up going back to therapy i get afraid of death and other things now idk I just don’t wanna upset god
Hi friends. I recently had a relapse with OCD and I haven’t felt that real intense pain/fear/panic since I was first diagnosed 3 years ago. It was awful. I’ve been on medication and going to therapy for some time, and I am happy to report I have grown a lot. Long story short, it’s just become a burden for me recently trying to understand why this had to happen to me (and all of you). When I first started following Jesus, it was such a spiritual high. I had so much peace and joy, and I think within that first year with Him I became obsessed with the Bible and learning as much as I could. I think it was a sweet time, but suddenly a switch flipped. I became concerned that all my head knowledge, though I took to heart, became all I cared about. Then all the intrusive thoughts started, and you know the rest. I was relieved when I got my diagnosis, to know that scrupulosity is even a thing. But today, I sit and realize my OCD has taken on other forms (existential/fear of going insane) and then of course I started asking God “why me?”. And then… of course.. I feel bad for asking that. And then it triggered that same old feeling that I’m not in right standing with God. It’s so meta I can’t take it. Does anyone wonder why this had to be? I know the typical answers “we live in a broken world” and “God will use this for His glory” but is anyone just able to sit in that frustration, and work it out? I want to keep fighting, try understanding, like there’s this itch in me that I need to “figure out” something. But I know God isn’t the voice that’s speaking that to me. But gosh, it’s so brutal and hard. I believe God is carrying me through this. 2 Corinthians 12 has been a blessing for this. I just feel so weak. I get upset this is happening, start doubting God, and then feel guilty. It’s a stupid cycle and I see it. I have a very intellectual mind, and I find that most people with this kind of OCD share this trait. But it’s like, the logic doesn’t help. I just want God to sit in my bedroom and tell me it’s real, my faith is intact, and to keep trusting. I don’t know why He won’t do that for me, and I feel guilty for even feeling that way. Anyways, I don’t know what I’m seeking here, but for anyone feeling this way, know you’re not alone. I deeply love you all, even though we are all strangers. 1 Peter 5:9… right?
will i ever be free or is this all there is for the rest of my life
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