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Depression
I have been in a terrible depressive state for almost 2 weeks. Most days I cry atleast 2 times a day. What should I do? How can you get out of your head?
I have been in a terrible depressive state for almost 2 weeks. Most days I cry atleast 2 times a day. What should I do? How can you get out of your head?
Whenever I’m in a depressive episode, it’s all about gaining momentum. I start by drinking some water, and gradually increase in intensity. Something I was told in inpatient is that it’s better to do something at 10% than 0%. If you take a shower, and you only have the energy to sit on the ground and let the water run over you- that’s great! At least you’ve rinsed yourself off. If you’re stuck in a certain pair of clothes- just change your underwear! Brush your teeth with water, eat a granola bar. You don’t need to do everything perfectly- be kind and patient with yourself. You have overcome all of your hardest days, and you’ll overcome this as well!! I am cheering you on.
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I’ll save you the trouble. There’s nothing you can do to “just get it out”. It’s a marathon not a sprint. It is like digging through a mountain. Once you start you can’t stop digging, and some days you won’t know which way is forward or back, and the light will be gone, but you need to keep going because god damnit you deserve it and you’re mental and physical health is worth it. I know it sucks and I’m where you are, but we got this!
Little chip aways and lowering expectations so you exceed it everyday. Get enough water, go for a walk, fold your clothes, start where you are. And talk to your therapist or psychiatrist.
I was broken up with 3 weeks ago and things are just getting worse. I feel like I’m wasting away and like nothing will get better. What’s worse is knowing that if I get out of this episode my ocd will strike back and I’m scared I won’t be able to deal with it. It’s like every part of me can’t accept this break up. I’ve reached out to people but I really would love to hear stories from anyone who thought they wouldn’t make it out
I’m really depressed and lately life has been really really bad. Everyday, it’s like something horrible happens and my mind tries to make me forget it. My family life isn’t that great and everything is super tough for me. It’s like when I get better I go like a million steps back. I ended up doing something bad today:ended up becoming aggressive to myself and caused some ouchies) it hurt a lot and right now I’m really stressed and have been for a while. My mental well being has been extremely bad these days. I have obsessive compulsive disorder but for me it’s decently strong so it’s hard to contain, Complex-trauma, depression, and possibly ADHD. It’s an awful mix. My life is a living hell everyday. I’m not sure how much longer I can keep lying to myself to Myself that I’m getting better when in reality I’m in so much pain, it’s like I’m barely doing anything at all. Please, help, I’ve been acting not like myself. I want to live, even though it’s extremely difficult too and I rather much not be here, but people are counting on me and I don’t want to fail them. How can I convince myself to stay a little longer when I am fully burnt out from trying to get better? I’m in so much pain. I don’t know how to even deal with it. I’m so lost, I might lose it more, and I’m scared for myself. I feel like I don’t even deserve help. I’m so mentally unwell I can’t even think correctly. I hate everything and just want to sleep forever and ever. I’m so numb to it all. I don’t feel anything anymore.
i want to get out of this dream like state, i haven't felt real in weeks, can anyone tell me how you got help?
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