- Date posted
- 2y
Right vs wrong
I know this all sounds really bad so I’m conflicted… My bf said he wanted to look at this boss’s computer when he leaves to see how much the boss’s salary is. I told him I don’t think that’s a good idea and he said I’m a party pooper. And it was clear he was only worried about getting caught. Then he said I effectively “shamed” him into not doing it although he said it in kind of a lighthearted way not an angry way. But now I’m obsessing about the rightness of the relationship. We have had similar conversations before about him cheating on tests or lying to get off of work (although I don’t usually care about those as much which I feel like is bad in itself) or about lying on a resume. But I know he’s a good person overall… but then stuff like this happens or he makes jokes that I find disturbing or unsettling and it freaks me out :( I don’t want someone to say I should break up with him but I’m afraid that’s what peoples reaction would be to this