- Date posted
- 2y
I feel like I'll end up like my father one day.
I feel like I'll end up like my father one day even dead. My dad was an alcoholic, and a drug attic what my mom told me, he was a sever alcoholic, and drug attic as well, but he tried he's best to be there for me, and my half sisters as well. Before I was 2 years old, my half sisters mother cheated on him, it was not the first time he caught her in the act, I remember someone told me he beat the shit out of that guy and was in jail for a year. When he got back he was very depressed, drinking more and doing more drugs, he was also suicidal as well, my mom did told hes family that he was suicidal, but they didn't listen, at August, I can't remember the date, before he took he's own life, he asked my grandmother (he's mother) before he took he's own life he asked her "Am I a good father to my girls?" My grandmother being a wonderful person she is, she said of course you are, you are a wonderful father to them. The next day he took he's own life at my half sisters mother's backyard. I was 2 at the time, it really broke my family, it also broke my mom, even tho they never got along, she was upset that he won't see me growing up, and be there. Even tho my dad treated my mom like shit, even from the start he didn't believe I was he's, but he stood up and try he's best to be there when I was born. Thru out years, I was growing up without him, having a shitty step dad in the past, people hurting me, and so much shit. I question myself wondering if I'll end up like him cause people told me how I'm so much like him, and act like him as well, it scares me cause I started doing drinking, smoking cigarettes and using drugs to escape from reality. (Not illegal drugs just weed) My mom who is spiritual says how my dad is with me always, by my side. I do try to talk to my dad sometimes, not a lot, but last night I was going thru so much in my mind I talked to him, I told him how I didn't want to live anymore, I explain what I'm feeling, how I was scared of the future, even afraid to live in the shitty world, even telling him I felt like I'm a curse, cause everyone was doing fine until I got back couple of times in the pschy ward, I explain to him I had plans as well doing it, I felt like he was there but I didn't know, I just wanted to talk to him, expectfuly how I didn't want to live anymore, and how I was so sorry to not continue life how he wanted me to, and how I'll meet him soon, how everyone will be happy that I'll be gone, expectfuly since I'm a curse, people will be free from my curse, I keep telling him how I was a curse to everyone, how people are suffering cause of me. It was 3 in the morning and I just wanted to talk to him how I felt, and how I just didn't want to live anymore. I keep thinking I'll end up like him, even being a bad parent, a bad friend, a bad daughter, even a bad person who was born in a world that she felt like a curse to everyone. Today I'm going to visit my grandma and grandpa, I want to ask them to let me see my father's grave, cause I want to talk to him and keep asking him why he had to go, and why he couldn't stay longer so I could've known him, he's voice, and how much he loved me. I know he's spirit is with me but I just want to talk to him in the grave, and talk to him why he couldn't stay longer, and how I'll be with him soon.