Ocdsuxs
- Date posted
- 6y
ReptileReptile
- Date posted
- 6y
Textbook HOCD. Ignore the thoughts, don’t fight them, the more you resist it persists. Let them flow through you, they are just thoughts, nothing more nothing less. Thoughts are NOT our true inner desires when you have OCD, but me saying that will make you doubt you have HOCD, which in itself is a symptom of HOCD. Say “Thanks for the thought brain” and move on with your day. It’s hard, but the more you practice, it’ll start to fade away.
rbheatonrbheaton
- Date posted
- 6y
I hope this helps and it's not triggering, but I'm a girl and every now and then I'll notice a girl that looks attractive. But the thing is, our minds are drawn to pretty things. Attraction does not equal sexual attraction. I can be "attracted" to a lamp, but that doesn't mean I want to have babies with it lol. It just means I think it looks nice. And I used to have HOCD, how I got over it was by what he had said. (Although my HOCD isn't as severe as my current OCD) but I was able to tell myself, "she looks nice" and move on. So now years later when I get those thoughts I simply acknowledge them and don't worry about it. Because he's right, they are just thoughts and they don't mean anything. I know it can be difficult, but keep reminding yourself "thoughts are just thoughts" that's CBT and it helps ?
ProgressNotPerfectionProgressNotP...
- Date posted
- 6y
Yes they just thoughts however difficult. I get hocd thoughts and I treat them like a suicidal thoughts I get from time to time. I dont need to act on it. The calmer I stay the less it bothers me. The fear reaction tells our brain the thought is important so it keeps sending it back to us.
ProgressNotPerfectionProgressNotP...
- Date posted
- 6y
If I see another guy and think he's attractive thats ok. Im human and no need to read into it. Ive met guys before and we hit it off immediately and had chemistry. One time it was one of my girlfriend at the times male friends and she made fun of me for having a bromance
ProgressNotPerfectionProgressNotP...
- Date posted
- 6y
Sometimes I see beautiful little girl and think they are attractive, doesnt mean I want to try and marry them
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- Date posted
- 17w
I need this to end.
I’ve completely lost myself. I can’t focus on my studies, I can’t go to the gym. Dang it I can’t even be around my male friends normally anymore. I got no idea why or how this happened but the only thing I know for sure is that I never questioned my sexuality neither doubted it. I never cared in general. I just liked girls. I keep testing and keep testing and keep testing my arousal but no matter how many times I see but I don’t feel the same way for guys that I do with girls my mind will always try to make me believe that I am gay. It’s like it’s forcing me into an identity I never asked for. But at the end of the day like my psychologist told me. Sexuality doesn’t change. So since I never felt anything for guys in my life it’s ocd. I’ve been up and down for 5 months now and while the last week I was feeling way better. Monday now and I’m back to zero. I just want to go back when everything was normal. I can’t keep living with this.
geodrimilis
- Date posted
- 17w
Hocd is literally a clown in my head.
Like I can’t think straight. This is making me doubt everything I’ve thought about myself and even makes me feel like I like the thoughts when I know I don’t. Like I would be less anxious at a time while I still have the thoughts and my mind would go “oh so you like it you must be gay” or the other one where I’m not anxious and I think of my attraction for girls that I’ve had my whole life and my mind goes “see now you’re not into them you’re gay” like it’s so stupid but so effective. I clearly remember being into girls my whole life but my mind is making me believe that all these attractions and feelings for women were all fake or “a thing of the past”. But I can still get aroused by women but I have this weird anxiety going on which brings these sensations/feelings and it’s so weird. Today I’ve spent my whole day thinking about it like I’ve been doing for 5 months now. I know that this aint normal but my mind just won’t let me live in peace. I never cared about my sexuality cuz I simply liked women my whole life but now my sexuality is a fundamental philosophy. I hate this.
geodrimilis
- Date posted
- 13w
My life is over
I won’t explain this again if you’ve been or going through it you know what I’m talking about. I felt good about women about an hour ago and now I’m worrying again I’m anxious and the groinals are back and it’s so annoying because I can’t study. And honestly I’m so sick and tired of this. I’ve been a girl crazy my whole life and my mind randomly decides “well what if you are gay” like bro. I’ve never seen a guy that way and in general IT WAS NEVER SOMETHING I THOUGHT ABOUT OR ASSOCIATED MYSELF WITH. IVE NEVER FELT ANYTHING TOWARDS A MAN AND NOW IT FEELS LIKE IT RANDOMLY FLIPPED. I CANT DO THIS BRO. WHY WOULD THIS HAPPEN IVE BEEN GOING THROUGH INSECURITIES ALREADY AND MY ATTRACTION WAS THE ONLY REAL THING I HAD LEFT AND NOW THIS. HOW MUCH DO YOU HATE ME GOD.
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