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Groinal Response?
Has any one here ever gotten the groinal response. It makes everything so much more confusing.
Has any one here ever gotten the groinal response. It makes everything so much more confusing.
Absolutely ! My groinals response happens when I get sexual intrusive thoughts or when I’m watching a movie w sexual content. What throws me off is that my groinals are stronger than a regular arousal and that terrifies me
@—————— You get the same , like stronger than regular arousals ?
@—————— Omg, I have never met someone that also had this same thing. For me, it’s after watching sexual things my mind will focus on the same sex and give me a strong groinals response. Or, I’ll just have images or vaginas and I get so anxious along with the groinal. This week I watched a movie with sexual scenes and this happened where I got moisture and my husband noticed and I panicked and didn’t want to have sex but we still did and he said that it felt different like my private really responded 😭 inside, I was dying like my SELF was in distress but my body was reacting to the sexual stuff 😭
Do you mind putting more detail? Like in what situation. Sorry if that’s too hard to answer or uncomfortable but I can answer if it’s what I think it is.
@flowers1530 Like when u feel movement in your groinal area when u see people of the same sex
@OCD123J Because of SOOCD, it will play mind tricks on you. Literally mind tricks I am not kidding. It’s normal yes with SOOCD or HOCD. Because you are overly obsessive about how you think and feel about the same sex it will convince you that you are in many ways, especially if you aren’t. Because your mind is so fixed on “same sex” stuff. It will all feel so convincing and REAL when in reality it’s not. You know what you like and your struggles don’t define who you are. You will get through this, our body is a body with blood and flesh movements everything. You will be okay, I know it’s easier said than done but just cause you get a groinal response DOES NOT mean you are sexually attracted to them. You just are obsessing over your every move about the same sex that you are self sabotaging yourself and convincing yourself you are feeling something when you are not.
@flowers1530 I hope this isn’t harsh at all, or triggering, I’m sorry if it is, but that’s my opinion and what I’ve learned
Yes, I have though it pops back up on random occasions. You have to let it be present and not react to it in order for it to go away. Don’t add more fuel to the fire.
This has been stressing me out, i don't find many specific scientific articles on groin response or similar topics, this makes me wonder if we all actually have a more serious problem? None of the therapists i've been to seem to think about OCD when talking to me and i'm not even diagnosed with anything, i'm always wondering if this means that i'm bad and i'm just hiding behind a false thing. Maybe my therapists would not comprehend that fully and i 100% understand them, apart from thoughts i have other things like groinal responses, that's one of the most uncomfortable things to say because i'm always afraid that by describing it, they'll suspect something way worse. It is worrying that i have not been able to find anything else for that topic on the internet apart from what this same app posts or the same old sources, i cannot find a big study very focused on it and that scares me
Does anyone else when they have the thoughts, they feel against it, but they still get arousal or tenglings sensations in the groinal area? Because this is what I experienced today and I feel like crap. This is going to be very triggering for a lot of you, but there are a lot of times that I notice things from kids. For example, there is a thirteen year old kid who looks very developed for her age, and I take notice of (and this already sounds creepy to me) her chest. Today with my thoughts, I imagined as if I were touching it, and although I usually "no no or "I don't want to do that", she is a kid, etc., I still get responses in my groinal area, and It felt very real. Even now, I feel as though I am faking it, even though I groan 😮💨 from it, and feel as though I am a fraud. Does anyone relate?
hi does anyone ever get a random grounal response then feel aroused but you don’t want to be like before i had the thought i was feeling a little aroused then i had a random thought and it had the ground response and i felt aroused i don’t understand.
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