- Date posted
- 1y
Suicidial OCD and Hopeless
Hello, I am almost 24 years old. My story started about 3 weeks ago, so everything is pretty new for me. 3 weeks ago I was driving to the gym, when suddenly this intrusive thought came up, to drive to the nearest bridge and jump down. I got very anxious but thought this will go away immediatly. Unfortunately it didn't and a few days later i started googling my symptoms and everything got worse. This thought of jumping down popped up over and over again and it ended in a few panic attacks. But I still thought this would go away and I tried to do other things. One evening during football (soccer) practice someone shot the ball right next to my face and my mind out of nowhere immagined jumping down an right before hitting the ground regretting everything. It was a terrible moment because it felt so real and i just wanted to cry. I called a therapist and made an appointment for the next week. The thoughts kept coming and i wanted to fight them which obviously made the whole situation worse. After my first appointment i felt kinda relieved because my therapist explained what ocd really is and that i have to accept that I am in this situation and that it doesn't help to argue with your mind. He also told me that he has experience with ocd and helped many patients that live a normal and happy life today. I tried to accept this thoughts and for a moment it helped. But out of nowhere another thought popped up which told me, that if i accept this thought and don't fear it anymore I would acctualy do it an the whole cycle started again. Fast forward to this current week. On monday I called my therpist and he told me this was a normal reaction and i felt kinda relieved again. On tuesday however the negative thoughts came back and my mind told me that I am depressiv now and this situation will never get better and i felt extremly hopeless. On tuesday night I went home an started crying, it was the lowest point of my life. Yesterday (Wednesday) i had another appointment with my terapist and told him everything. We also discussed the possibilty of medication and I went to the pharmacy and bought some Xanax. (My therpist said he would wait a moment before taking antidepressivs). I felt kinda relieved again. I read the instructions on how to use it and of course I read the cautions. And when i read that taking to much can lead to an overdose and death my mind told me, that when i feel hopeless again I am going to "drink" the whole bootle and die. I felt extremly sick and anxious once again and put the meds away immediatly. Yesterday night i was thinking about this whole situation again and understood that i had this intrusive thouhgts about jumping down from a high place many times before but i just brushed them off and continued with my life. I felt kinda relived again because i told myself, hey you had this thoughts before but didn't act on them nor did they bother you and i felt some kind of hope again, which brings me to the present day. I feel kinda sad, unsure and anxious again. I am on google and try to comfort myself when reading that people with suicidial ocd dont really want to die and want to protect themselves from this harm. I know that that is just a compulsion because i search for reasurance. But I just can't break out of this cycle. I know that ERP is the gold standard. I think I could expose myself to my fears but the next moment i think how can you say you are ready do to ERP, does that mean you are not even afraid of (for example this bridge) and you are really suicidial. And the whole fear comes again. I tell myself i dont't want to die and i want to be alive and happy and for a moment i feel relieved and trust myself. But the very next moment I think that this whole situation will never get better and one day i will just do it. I know that by telling myself i will never do this and searchig for reassurance online I don't really help myself, but the whole situation is just overwhelming. Did someone experience this feeling of uncertainty when thinking, ok i will accept this thought of harming myself, but then thinking if i really accept this thought I am going to do it? And did someone overcome suicidial OCD to the point where it doesn't bother them anymore. Sorry for my English, its not my native language..