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Boy crazy lesbians don’t exist. They normally pretend they are to try to fit in. People will say that they were, but I don’t buy it at all. That makes absolutely no sense in the slightest. I think they say that to exaggerate their story.
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They pretend to be boy crazy, but I bet your mind is about to say “what if I’ve been pretending to be boy crazy???” And then start obsessing. I don’t mean to give reassurance, but that’s a red flag of OCD.
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- 6y
You reassured yourself in this comment too, you might’ve not caught it. Remember reassurance lasts temporarily, I could say that your not this or that a billion times, yet you’ll then go on to obsess later. I’m very guilty of reassurance seeking myself. I’m pretty sure everyone with OCD is. What you got to know, is who the core you is. And know it, and stop caring about being gay or whatever your obsession is. I also have HOCD, and it’s hard, but practice makes perfect. If there is any advice I can give you is to stop doing compulsions and you will see a significant decrease in your obsessions. I can guarantee that.
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Your correct, you can’t let it ruin your time with your family. I’m on vacation at the moment, and honestly it’s kinda helpful since it gets me out of the house and gives me something to do. Keep your chin up, you’ll get through this.
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- 6y
I know girls be like on instagram commerns of a kpop girl Or something: she made me gay. Im like HOW?? How are u litteraly atteacred to a whole other gnede because of some girl. Such a big fear of mine thst someone will thrn me gay or that it already has happened. I truly think it had something to do with this generation, dont forget to stay true to urself!
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@HOCDiagnosed i know. But there litteraly are girls out there who mean it. I click on theyre profile and theyre bio says proud bi/gay or the flag. I know its like a slur but the real cases triggered me
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@theraptilecyka do u mean that they pretend to be gay or they pretend to have been boy crazy in the past?
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@thereptilecyka hahaha u read my thoughts exactly. But after some anxiety i sadly already reassured myself with telling myself i was boy obsessed so than i cant be lesbian because u said lesbians dont have a boy crazy past lol. Weird...
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Thanks for the helpfull advice :) i gotta get my mind straight, tomorrow im going on vacation and ugh it feels like whenever a nice event comes up in my life, my hocd is extra hard on me to make sure it kills all my excitment and makes sure thst i will have a horrible time with a lot lf anxiety. But i will try to keep my head up and follor ur advice, i cant let this ruin my precious time with my family.
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- 22w
I need too know that I'm not insane, really. I am 16 and for the past two weeks, this has been completely ruining my health and happiness. I only recently came out as a lesbian like 3 months ago after a lot of confusion about my attraction since I used to think I liked men. At first, I felt so sure that I liked women, but lately, I've been having these unwanted thoughts about the possibility of liking men. I never used to feel this way, but now, every time I look at a man, my brain obsessively fixates on it. It forces me to imagine kissing him, loving him, things I don’t want, and then tries to convince me that I do. It’s painful. The thought of this fills me with fear and anxiety, leading to panic attacks and breakdowns. I don’t want these thoughts. I hate them with every fiber of my being, but I’m terrified that one day I’ll act on them and somehow like it. I used to think I liked men, but back then, I was in a very unhealthy space in a time of escapism and something deeply parasocial. I’ve only ever liked the attention and validation a man could give me, but these experiences are somehow treated as further proof that I’m "bisexual." I’ve never been in a real relationship with anyone, which makes my brain constantly challenge me—telling me, “You don’t even know what love feels like.” It won’t shut up. It keeps obsessively trying to make me prove that I’m a lesbian, testing my reactions and questioning my certainty. Is this normal?
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- 22w
For me it was a weird intrusive thought and after that I slowly started developing anxiety and I felt a weird thing like I was losing my attraction to girls. Then I woke up one day in complete panic cuz it felt like I had lost feelings for girls suddenly and I started searching online how to know if you’re gay if sexuality changes suddenly and I took some gay tests or sexuality tests online. Chat gpt was a big thing back then too. That was before therapy and before I knew what ocd is.Can anyone relate?
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- 20w
I am a 18 year old masc lesbian with a loving girlfriend for 1 year, and I have been lesbian for almost my whole life and I have never been attracted to men in any way. flash to my past, My ex girlfriend who used to identify as a lesbian had cheated on me with a man. Recently I saw this tiktok of this masc lesbian turn straight and my friends and girlfriend made jokes I am going to turn straight for my male best friend. My male best friend came over and he’s a great guy but I do not want him in any way. when him and i were hanging out my mind threw in a thought it was “What if i like him”, i came back home and i had the worst panic attack and i felt so sick, i cried and i cried. ever since that day I have been struggling with intrusive thoughts, i don’t want a man in any way, and i feel comfortable as a lesbian but these thoughts won’t stop and they become worse when i see people say being lesbian is a phase or that i haven’t met the right guy or i’ll change in the future. i just want these thoughts to stop, i don’t want to stop being a lesbian ever, i love women so much and i just want all of this to be over with. i do not want a man in any way and im tired of my thoughts doubting myself and i hate the “what ifs”, I just want to be my old self, I want to be happy with my girlfriend.
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