- Date posted
- 1y
SO-OCD Thoughts
Hi All, Great community, it’s been really helpful. Please note that this may be triggering and I’m not looking for an exact answer (our worst outcome) but was hoping to see if anyone has had similar experiences. I struggle with SO-OCD - I’ve been thinking I’m gay for the past month. At first, my intrusive thoughts were questioning and I had panic attacks/acute anxiety. I’m on session 2 of CBT (my third round of CBT overall). Before, I had ROCD. Luckily, I managed to get over that bout. The crux of my situation is this - my thoughts have moved from questioning whether I’m gay to stating in my head “I’m gay”. I’ve never wanted to with a man or considered myself anything other than straight until the past month I started on Wellbutrin, which doesn’t help with OCD but does help with anxiety and depression. As of this week, I have not been feeling anxious but I am constantly ruminating and Googling (5-10 hours a day). I’m getting groinal response (wanting to sleep or kiss every man I see) and I’m checking for attractiveness in both men and women. I am trying to do exposures, but I’m not getting any anxiety from the ones I am doing. I get a delayed response and I feel revulsion at what I’m writing. My SUDS doing these is max 4 and I’m unable to get it higher. Because I’m not getting the anxiety response, I’m unable to get uncomfortable with the thought, even though I am uncomfortable with the whole idea of being gay (because I don’t feel like I am when I’m rational) This has got me very confused, so wanted to know if anyone has any good triggers to practice, and if anyone’s thoughts had been super assertive rather than questioning Thanks in advance ❤️