Tiktok and comphet

I was on tiktok and I intentionally looked up “comphet video”, because I was so sick of feeling anxious and just “wanted an answer”. In one of the videos, the girl said that she realised what “true attraction” felt like because when she was with a girl she felt like there was a magnet between them and like she would “die” if she wasnt physically close to her. I did a compulsion and compared this to how I am with my bf and its not “strong” like that. Another video said that “ she loved the attention of the guy and seeked validation from guys and love feeling protected but it was not love”. I usually use these arguments to ground myself when I’m panicked and remember why I am with my bf. And now turns out its a thing and that means its comphet?! At this poing im not even triggered, im just sad. I just wanna be happy eand not regret anything when I am 70. + they all say that the hardest part was accepting that about themselves ( inner acceptance ). Ughh

Sexual Orientation OCD

Caesarsalad

Date posted: 1y

Anyone feel attraction differently. And everyone has their own story. You need to understand just because someone else experienced it, it doesn't necessarily means you are going to experience it too. (Maybe, maybe not). Please stop checking. Or at least reduce your checking time. (I used to do a schedule for my checking complusions, and that actually helped). Cheking for an answer will never satisfy you and will only make you more anxious than you already are.

Caesarsalad

Date posted: 1y

@Anonymous1234567891011 Yup.

Caesarsalad

Date posted: 1y

@Anonymous1234567891011 Thank you :) I hope for you to get better ♡ and I believe that you will.

Caesarsalad

Date posted: 1y

@Anonymous1234567891011 I got evidence too Haha. But I didn't/don't want to spend my time and energy on something useless. I adopted "a non-caring" attitude eventhough I was anxious and wanted to know for sure. I still have thoughts and OCD shows up in my dreams. I had a intrusive thought just a few minutes ago. But I just don't care like I used to.

ryry

Date posted: 1y

This illness truly sucks.

Lost in the ...

Date posted: 25w

Comphet

I was trying not to think abt it and honestly inwas doing a great job until a woman came on my fyp on tiktok and said “if u think women are objectively more attractive u re not straight” and now i’m so anxious and distressed and am scared i might be comphet. When i was little i remember being obsessed with the “i cant remember to forget u” mv so i rewatched it and thought it was sensual but nothing more. Idk. She also said that if u use a fantasy to get arroused around men u might not like them. Idk anything anymore Im so tired

Sexual Orientation OCD

Anonymousesti

Date posted: 19w

Soocd while in a relationship

Is anyone here going throughbSOOCD while being in a relationship? If yes, do you feel like “something is missing” even tho everything is great? My OCD keeps on telling me “you’re settling” or “yeah you’re happy with what you have but its nothing compared to what you would be feeling if you were with a girl, but you’re with your bf for society!” Im soo tired!! When I look at him I find him so attractive and handsome but i dont know if im attracted to him or if he’s just attractive!! And while growing up I was never “pulled by guys” but I thought that everyone was this way! I also used to look at girls because I found them Beautiful but I thought that everyone used to look at them this way! I think what truly bothering me is “comphet” and the “lesbian masterdoc”. Like I feel like I can relate to some points! Yes I used to choosw my crushes growing up but it felt like everyone used to do the same thing! As for my current bf, we started out as friend and then it turned into something else but now im scared I just agreed to being his gf because “that’s what I had to do” and im scared that he’s my “beard”. I particularly got triggered yesterday because my friends were talking about their celebrities crush and I couldnt think about anyone without forcing it! Instead I could easily think about kristen stewart or someone with the same vibe. All of this + my feelings must mean something no??? I just want to feel “in love” my bf is perfect!

Sexual Orientation OCD

Lost in the ...

Date posted: 13w

Comphet

Chat GPT told me its more likely comphet than ocd Idk im scared Im scared that if i accept the uncertainty to know the truth once and for all 1) i end up actually turning out to be lesbian 2) I lose the guy i love (or i think i love idk atp) I’m remembering so many moments of same sex attractions from when i was little Im so scared im so scared Its too much

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