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Now that I think about it... my OCD has always flared up during big changes in my life; when I’m moving, starting studies or finishing studies, starting a new job, etc. That’s when the intrusive thoughts and anxiety usually become stronger. Also when I find myself being bored and demotivated, my OCD tends to flare up then as well.
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Agreed. Writing down and preparing yourself can be an excellent way to remind yourself. To quote G.I. Joe, Knowing is half the battle, so being aware of life changes coming up could potentially be a good way to prepare yourself for the inevitable anxiety coming up. Another technique we can apply is dealing with the Anxiety BEHIND the OCD. Anxiety is a close cousin to OCD and they are usually best friends and show up together so alot of techniques that apply to Anxiety have been helping me with dealing with this stuff. In dealing with anxiety, there is something called "content. "Content" is whatever thoughts you may be anxious or obsessing about at the moment of your OCD loop or anxiety. Thing is as long as you give in to responding to the Content, OCD and/or Anxiety win. That's their turf. You are in their homecourt. However, if you recognize and deal with the anxious feelings and stress BEHIND the content and not the content itself. Then you could deal with the anxiety more effectively. This youtube series I've been watching has helped me a ton with a few of the techniques behind it. It is a super informative series and It has helped me so much. As I usually say don't take anything on the internet as 100% true. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLqts1uGCm468oPTFWkQ4Ewb4tMUrKYqOC I would love to hear more about some appicable techniques everyone else has come across so please keep them coming. :)
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My psychologist has told me the same thing. It usually pops up during times of stress or high change. Some people who have ocd eventually see it as a stress indicator. However that being said, I would never take anything said online as 100% fact so I would say discuss with your therapist and find out their oppinion on it.
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Thank you so much for sharing these thoughts and ressources ! It definitely helps :)
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I cannot give you a certain answer, since I am not a doctor or psycologist. However, I am also affected by OCD.. it came last year when I was ending an important period in Paris before moving on. Moreover, it came back since July that I am waiting to move on again to a new city (bigger adventure and responsibilities). So I feel you. I am sure we will all get better once we start!
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Think you for your answer ! It seems that OCD might appear as a protective mechanism, because it's "easier" for the mind to obsess over something than to face the big uncertainty of life when we feel it stronger... Just some theories, that help to distance myself from thoughts and reconnect I think
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So then here's my questions for application. 1. What techniques do we use to remind ourselves it's stress flaring up as OCD when life changes come? Also how do we curb boredom and demotivation? Reason why I'm asking is I also have ADHD which is great when you are focused on something you love, but you can find yourself quickly switching to other things when you feel distracted, bored or not motivated.
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I think it could be useful to write it down somewhere, when we know some changes are coming. As a reminder that we can be more sensitive to intrusive thoughts at these times...
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I am not familiar with ADHD, don't know if I can help, but I try to plan things (seeing friends or even something very small like going for a walk), just to have something to look forward to... though it is very tricky because OCD usually does not approve...
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- 24w
Trying not to seek reassurance, but rather connect the dots on my OCD and possible reasons as to why I am the way I am. I have severe OCD (or at least I hope I do) mainly surrounding POCD. I've had symptoms of OCD the majority of my life but this theme has come up more recently. When I was a kid, and i'm talking 6-7, I was first exposed to some really gross adult content online. It was introduced to me by a friend of mine around the same age of me. I saw some really disgusting things that a 6-7 year old should definitely not see. This was not a one time occurrence, as I had been exposed to taboo topics online years to come after that, such as the same friend introducing me to Omegle... And i'm sure you can imagine how that went, theres a lot of genuinely disgusting human beings on there. Coming back to the reason for making this post; is it possible to early exposure to this content could be one of the reasons I struggle with POCD? It genuinely scares me to death because you hear that real p*dos dealt with simular situations when they were kids, so thats kind of making me feel that this could be more than OCD, and I could be a genuinely bad person. My POCD feels so real, that at times i'm fully convinced its not OCD. Sometimes I can't even distinguish the feelings of attraction between a younger person and an older person, except for the feeling of anxiety and fear. Its really hard to explain without going into detail, but it just feels so real. Some feedback on this would be great, thank you all.
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Whenever anyone starts to feel like their thoughts are less triggering or they feel a moment of happiness/ relief OCD tells you that you want the thoughts back or you actually like having the thoughts and maybe thats just the person I really am? I feel like im going insane😢
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I was diagnosed with OCD around the age of 6, subtype- contamination primarily. It calmed down as I got older and I assumed it had gone away, but also didn’t realize it can show up in other ways, and it still had been effecting me which I know now. I’m not 31 and I’ve been in therapy for a year and it’s helped a lot, although I sometimes get thoughts that what if some of the stuff I’m dealing with isn’t ocd and I’m exaggerating. I feel like thoughts will feel sticky and I’ll do certain compulsions but then the thought eventually vanishes if I do it a few times which makes me think maybe it’s not OCD since other people/friends I know would probably do the exact same thing. Not sure if I’m making sense, but I guess my question is if that thought comes up with anyone else? Just being unsure if something you’re doing actually is ocd or not.
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