My husband hates me because of my OCD. He's blaming me for everything. Sometimes I just wish I would disappear compeletely so he can be happy.

Your husband sounds like a douche ngl. Try to reason with him and if he refuses to help you and just wants to beat a person down who is already down then how much does he truly care? I have family who has a bunch of issues and not once do i blame them for their illnesses. To me he sounds like a narcissist.

I’m so sorry to hear that. How much does he know about OCD?

He knows about OCD. I've explained it to him and he seems to understand. But whenever we have a misunderstanding, he always brings up how worthless I am and blames it on my OCD. I know he's tired and frustrated, so am I. I feel like he still can't accept the fact that I have this disorder.. sometimes he wish I was different.

That's why I hate myself for having OCD. I can't be the kind of wife that he always wanted.

Please don’t hate yourself for having this. You are not your OCD and it has no bearing on who you are as a person. None of it is your fault❤️ It’s been very difficult for me to accept and live with this every day. In times past it has debilitated me so much that I could hardly get off my couch and to everyday tasks. I understand how it feels❤️

Dahlia again you should be a therapist. Stardust I’m going through the same stuff with my wife, but I can’t blame this ocd on nobody and all I can have is compassion for myself and the people that are affected by it. With this I’m not saying that he should treat like trash, but to have compassion for all the negativity that comes ocd experiences.

Your husband is a twunt you can do better ?