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How do you accept bad thoughts?
Do you just be like yeah this could happen? Do you just be like yeah this is possible?
Do you just be like yeah this could happen? Do you just be like yeah this is possible?
I try to not label the thought “good” or “bad”. I believe labeling it gives it power. Try to really notice you are having the thought. “I am noticing I am having the thought that…”. Notice it, and engage with your physical surroundings and continue to do what you were doing. Hope that helps you!
You need to accept uncertainty and stay in the present: "Maybe it will happen, maybe it won't, I don't know the future, but it's not happening now, and I'm not planning on making it happen, and I always have a choice." These are two ERP tools you can learn with a trained OCD therapist.
It's kind of like a "yeah, whatever, sure, you do you" kind of response. It's not so much a conversation but imagine someone talking to you and you're in the middle of something and busy and it's that half automated response. That kind of feel to it
I need tips on how to really accept the uncertainty the ocd causes, even if it feels so bad like I might get in trouble for something , do I wanna be okay with that?
I've been told a lot that in order to get better, we need to tolerate uncertainty, which yea I get that and I'm trying every day more and more to reach that point!! But I've also been told that we need to tolerate uncertainty AND "our worst fears becoming true". Like how does that work, especially with POCD, OCD about a///ault, SA and all of that? Like that is really difficult for me and I don't really understand how I'm supposed to just shrug stuff like that off
Just a quick question how did you guys who have gotten better learn to accept these thoughts and not fight them ? What tips and tricks did you guys use to truly get better.
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