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- 1y
How do you accept bad thoughts?
Do you just be like yeah this could happen? Do you just be like yeah this is possible?
Do you just be like yeah this could happen? Do you just be like yeah this is possible?
I try to not label the thought “good” or “bad”. I believe labeling it gives it power. Try to really notice you are having the thought. “I am noticing I am having the thought that…”. Notice it, and engage with your physical surroundings and continue to do what you were doing. Hope that helps you!
You need to accept uncertainty and stay in the present: "Maybe it will happen, maybe it won't, I don't know the future, but it's not happening now, and I'm not planning on making it happen, and I always have a choice." These are two ERP tools you can learn with a trained OCD therapist.
It's kind of like a "yeah, whatever, sure, you do you" kind of response. It's not so much a conversation but imagine someone talking to you and you're in the middle of something and busy and it's that half automated response. That kind of feel to it
I was watching a video and the guy is talking about OCD in general. He says you are supposed to say “I guess it will happen” when you have an OCD fear or intrusive thought. But my thing is if my brain is telling me I have to be on guard or else I will be a danger to children I’m just not sure how I can say “I guess it will happen”. Does anybody have any thoughts on this?
Does anyone just have absurd thoughts, and have such a hard time accepting them? OCD is tricky and how can I just accept this is how it is . I’m so tired of fighting myself. I have such a hard time accepting these awful thoughts about killing my daughter.
Just trying to accept the uncertainty and move on.... I don't want to be bad.... I want to be a good person.... But I feel like a bad person sometimes I get horribly disgusting thoughts when I'm angry and think the most horrendous things
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