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- Conner00
- Date posted
- 36w ago
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- AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 36w ago
I deal with this bad. Anytime something is mentioned about my partners past I get so anxious. It’s like I don’t want her to have had a past before me. But it’s so unfair bc I’ve had more relationships in the past than her. Need an ERP for this
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- ColtronColtron
- Date posted
- 36w ago
@Anonymous Me as well. Ur not alone.
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- armenoverheavenarmenoverheaven
- Date posted
- 36w ago
I didn't know this was a thing. I have the opposite problem. postactive jealousy? is that a thing? I'm fine with someone's past — it's in the past for a reason. it's the thought of them being with someone else in the future when we eventually break up (and that mindset is a whole other issue I gotta deal with) which will prove my (precieved) inadequacies.
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- Conner00Conner00
- Date posted
- 36w ago
Yeah it’s the opposite for a lot of people compulsions make you want to ask questions and details and hurt your self more it’s pretty sucky
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- Conner00Conner00
- Date posted
- 36w ago
Yeah it’s horrible dates and years even story’s when she was a kid trigger me its so crazy how your mind can do this
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- Conner00Conner00
- Date posted
- 36w ago
But we are not wrong for feeling this we just have to realize life happened and we must go on and keep working at it
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- P
- Date posted
- 6y ago
Does anyone want to share their thoughts on Relationship OCD? I am new here and have obsessive jealousy (ie I obsess that my partner is always cheating on me and have to check on him constantly). It’s really been hard on me and my boyfriend and I’m struggling to do the exposures..
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- junelle
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Is retroactive jealousy a part of ROCD? Either way I’ve been dwelling on 1 particular person from my partners past tho they are not at all in his present and I think I took it to the breaking point. My partner feels like nothing they do resolves that retroactive jealousy and I don’t blame him because sometimes I feel like I’m just such a deeply bitter and insecure person that I’m just not capable of forgiving and forgetting. This might be the end ? I pushed a caring person to the breaking point
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- decs00046
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Anyone else on here struggling with retroactive jealousy OCD? Would also love to hear from people who are making progress with it, or feel they've got over it?
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