Dani Rudko
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- 5y
EsosaEsosa
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- 5y
Regardless of whether you have a crush on this person or not, you don’t have to act on it. Part of letting it go is accepting the chances of it being true. If you have a crush on her, will your entire world change? I doubt it. I struggled with this a bit too but you have to ask yourself this (and be COMPLETELY honest about your feelings too): in what ways does she make you happy? What does she mean to you? In that moment, you have to follow your gut. What will make YOU happier? Pursuing a possible romance/liking her or perhaps keeping it platonic/friendly?
himz333himz333
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- 5y
Here is what WORKED for me: -Think of ur mind as a second person, as person who always with u, its not u but another person. -This way u know that ur mind is seperate from u. -Now just observe all the thoughts & emotions thrown at u by ur mind(the second person). -Do not fight or react, only observe, acknowledge and let the thoughts stay. -Now you can see that this person(ur mind) is mostly talking rubbish. - Then u can process the useful thoughts & ignore the useless thoughts.
cementkittycementkitty
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- 5y
either let the thought pass or come to terms with it! it might not be ocd, it could be real.
Infinite1010Infinite1010
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- 5y
Are you working with any therapists?
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