My anxiety is spiking a lot right now I have no idea what’s going on my thoughts keep saying your gay I thought I wasn’t but I just saw a post saying even if I get boners to girls I could still be gay I am anxious right now someone please help
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@Bone s So could I be bi?
@Bone s I mean I don’t get turned on from guys and I have always liked girls idk man
@Bone s Just right now I have lost attraction and have gay intrusive thoughts and stare at men but when I touch a guy I don’t get turned on but when I do it with a girl I do get turned on how do you get out of this ocd loop it’s effecting me bad
@Bone s At first with this sort of ocd did you lose attraction to your wife? Or no
@Bone s Well I hope this is ocd for me this all happened after my friend told me I was gay and made me take a gay test on google and I got bisexual and had a lot anxiety and was crying but right after I lost all attraction to girls I was never like that I don’t think you go from straight to bi or gay in 1 day but it makes me wonder because of the staring at men and the fact that I have no anxiety or that many intrusive thoughts anymore I’m must very concerned
@Bone s I feel like it’s most probably ocd
Hello do You want to talk
@Hopeful29 Yes please
@Zappo First try to take a deep breath
@Hopeful29 I am
@Hopeful29 This gives me so much anxiety I thought gays couldn’t get Boners to girls
@Zappo Hey try to just let the thoughs there try to not engage with the though 2 minutes
I haven’t been diagnosed with it, but I feel like nothing else describes me better. If you do have this feeling and thoughts, what are some ways to lower your anxiety ?
straight girl suffering from hocd, okay so when i was younger i looked at like a girl corn star insta for like 2 weeks and like did get aroused by it, didn’t think much of it still fancied boys, girls were like ew no to me, but its triggering my hocd so badly, like is it normal that i could look at a sexy pic of a girl n get aroused by it, but like a shirtless pic of a boy i wouldn’t, however i have insane attraction to men irl, i love my boyfriend, i love the idea of being with a man and hate the idea of being with a woman, this really freaking me out!
Like I can’t think straight. This is making me doubt everything I’ve thought about myself and even makes me feel like I like the thoughts when I know I don’t. Like I would be less anxious at a time while I still have the thoughts and my mind would go “oh so you like it you must be gay” or the other one where I’m not anxious and I think of my attraction for girls that I’ve had my whole life and my mind goes “see now you’re not into them you’re gay” like it’s so stupid but so effective. I clearly remember being into girls my whole life but my mind is making me believe that all these attractions and feelings for women were all fake or “a thing of the past”. But I can still get aroused by women but I have this weird anxiety going on which brings these sensations/feelings and it’s so weird. Today I’ve spent my whole day thinking about it like I’ve been doing for 5 months now. I know that this aint normal but my mind just won’t let me live in peace. I never cared about my sexuality cuz I simply liked women my whole life but now my sexuality is a fundamental philosophy. I hate this.
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