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My pocd it's getting really bad again and I don't know what to do ... I am so scared .. I will go to therapy but Idk if I could talk about my intrusive thoughts...I am scared . Any advice?
My pocd it's getting really bad again and I don't know what to do ... I am so scared .. I will go to therapy but Idk if I could talk about my intrusive thoughts...I am scared . Any advice?
Be honest with your therapist they should be able to help if they are familiar with ocd
Yeah I should but I am scared they will think I am a bad person
@Mitu_001 - Remember that they are there to be part of our team and to ultimately help us
i’m struggling with POCD. do you wanna talk about it? you are not alone! i’ve learnt so much regarding POCD and i didn’t realise how common it really is
Yeah it would help! Thank you
@Mitu_001 awesome! what’s on your mind?
@anony_ Well .. I get intrusive thoughts ...I had other themes before but this is the most horrible you know? I got this like a long time ago , it got better but now is worse again...And I am ruminating constantly...
@Mitu_001 i get you 100%…ive had ocd since i was in my preteens and im 18 now and ive gone through themes such as sexuality, awful thoughts about my mum. i have terrible ocd about my health but pocd is the worst one, you’re right. i go through states where if i think it’s slightly getting better, i start thinking “ what if i really don’t have ocd and i like these thoughts “ then i start compulsing and i feel as if in back to square one
I am sorry that you struggle! And it's like that for me too! I also struggle from my preteens and I also have terrible thoughts about my health.. It's though
@Mitu_001 it’s truly one of the worst feelings. if you don’t mind me asking are you getting any professional help or intend to? because if not i use ieso and i talk to a therapist through there and she specialises in ocd
I was so scared to talk about it but I finally did and it does help but you have to continue to go to therapy don’t go just a few times and get in your head and stop going.
I am glad! Yeah I will go... It's necessary
Is ok I don't mind! I intend to go to a therapist . I went before but I didnt talked about my intrusive thoughts ...And if you don't mind is the therapist helping you ? I mean is it helping?
@Mitu_001 it’s helping a little bit but i only have one session a week and only started about 3 weeks ago. but it’s really nice to actually be able to talk about this stuff that you can’t say in like everyday conversations every day because unless you have ocd or you specialise in it i feel like no one understands
@anony_ I am glad that it helps!
@Mitu_001 And yeah I dont think that someone could really understand unless they have ocd or specialise ..
@Mitu_001 you are most definitely not alone though! it’s genuinely so so scary but it will pass, it just takes time
@anony_ Thank you very much ! Yeah it will pass! I hope it will get better soon for both of us!
@Mitu_001 i hope so as well! if you ever need to talk just tag me and we can have another chat 😊
@anony_ Thank you so much! Same for you!
If it's any comfort, the current theme you're going through, POCD, is one of the most common OCD themes. Please keep in mind that OCD attaches itself to what and who you value, and what you fear. You're not a bad person. The fact that you're agonizing over these intrusive thoughts is evidence that you're not bad. You also mentioned in your conversations that you've had other themes. That, too, is textbook OCD. I mention all this to assure you that you're not bad, you're dealing with OCD. Please keep in mind that a thought is a thought is a thought. It's not a threat, or an action, just a thought. The English philosopher, Samuel Johnson, commented, "We all have thoughts that would shame hell." Not only you or the rest of us dealing with OCD, but EVERYONE. As for therapy, you really need to retain a trained OCD therapist who uses ERP therapy, the gold standard of OCD therapy. It's VERY effective. You can find a good therapist through the NOCD site or by checking out the International OCD Foundation website. They have a list of approved OCD therapists, and you can see if there's one in your town. I did the NOCD route and am very pleased with the result. As for the therapist thinking you're a bad person, relax, like a priest in the confessional, your therapist has heard it all before...Hope this helps.
Thank you very much ! Your words brought me comfort . Thank you !
As rough as it sounds, as soon as I accepted that it was happening, the less tense it became for my body to bear. Kudos on therapy, I suggest you proceed with however you're comfortable, but proceeding nonetheless. We have the power to steer clear and completely think about something else but it starts with ourselves, therapy and community. I applaud you for sharing 👏
Thank you very much!
I have pocd too and get triggered easily plus my past haunts me. My therapist helps me a lot and reminds me it's my pocd not my values. I'm here if you need to talk
Thank you so much! I am glad therapy helps
It would really help to talk
How do you deal with pocd. I mean...things that trigger you.For example someone said something really really disturbing on tik tok.And I am scared.I am scared this triggered me in the first place.Like what does it mean abt me? And I wont say what they said because is disgusting.I am scared I am a bad person and a disgusting......I am scared to go outside ( i am scared i am a...p) .And bcs of people who think like that.I am I am like them.Any advice?
This is really ruining me and I’m at the lowest point of this. I’m not suicidal or anything and I’m not depressed but I can’t bear with this anymore. POCD is the worst ocd I’ve ever dealt with and I’m too scared to tell a therapist about this. What do I do
I’m on track to getting my diagnosis and i’m already questioning it. Pocd feels so real, and even though i once saw someone say “it has to feel real or you wouldn’t worry” which is like god level reassurance honestly, it hurts. I can’t look at children, they deserve better. My usual attraction seems to be gone and i can not think about anything else. At the same time i don’t really feel anxiety. I’m scared i don’t feel bad enough, if i just smiled maybe i honestly wouldn’t feel bad? I don’t have many other ocd symptoms either, except for some stuff when i was a kid and like questioning everything about myself. I’m clinging to the hope that this is Pocd instead of me being a Monster and at the same time i’m so sad that i have to go trough this. I don’t like myself but i’m sorry for my younger self. I just want to be held and be told that everything will be okay but how can i know? Even then i feel like comfort of that kind only really applies to others who are struggling and aren’t horrible like me. In so many ways i sm convinced i am a monster even though it might be a bit irrational. Maybe i’m a monster after all and then i should really get away from everyone i love. They deserve better :( After a lifetime of struggles (nothing super serious) i’m just getting started with therapy and i’m so.. scared. What if it won’t help? What if it turns out i’m the bad person i fear to be. Is there any way i can prepare or some tips or literally anything else? I would appreciate any wise words
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