- Username
- Esosa
- Date posted
- 5y ago
It’s time for you to stop seeking reassurance online and stop taking those quizzes. You can do it.
There’s online quizzes for everything. There’s a quiz that tells you what type of cheese you are. Please don’t listen to silly online quizzes, even if you were gay, don’t let an online quiz tell you your sexuality. Watch pure on channel 4 x
My homosexual OCD was like that too. It got so convincing that I would orgasm when I thought of women bc of the groinal response my phobia was generating. But it is gone and the real me is showing up again and I'm just as straight as I was before hocd!
@Esosa, it's a programme that was on Channel 4 in the UK (it'll be on catch up I think). It's based on the book 'Pure' which is about living with sexual intrusive thoughts and doubts. The show is very graphic - I actually couldn't watch it as it was a bit triggering! But the book is wonderful. It made me laugh and cry, and all of it was so relatable to me... It's by Rose Cartwright. You should read it if you can!
First: It does not matter if you are straight, gay or bi. Second: You should not take that quizes. It does not help and also I am sure that the quiz is not objective because it depends on your subjective answers. Stop checking it, allow your self to stop suffering because life is more than labelling yourself or checking your feelings. Third: If you judge your thoughts, stop doing it. Just live and be happy. Hope you relax and enjoy life with more calm and without fears. It is not your orientation what makes feel you bad but OCD, so relax and spend the time with productive or funny things
I just took the same one
And it said the same ?
I do these to an I either get straight or bi. It’s dumb, but you need to stop doing this
What’s pure on channel 4?
Interesting. I live in the US so I’m not sure how that would work but I’ll see if I can find it on YouTube
This is ridiculous, now I feel like I’m truly questioning my sexuality. I’m 15. Never had a crush on a girl, don’t think I have. Touched myself to lesbian porn mostly, turned on by sexual images of women but still I never questioned what I felt for boys. I knew I would crush on them, I knew they were feelings. If anything maybe I could be bisexual. But still that doesn’t seem right. I’m just completely lost. Maybe I’m just thinking to much. It shouldn’t be this hard right? I read bisexual people immediately knew. Most of them I think, they realized all their crushes and Fantasies they wanted in real life. I never fantasized about a women, or any girl. I remember crushing on a senior once, I felt excited to see him at school. And fantasized about him. And with my Boyfriend he was just so innocent, and cute and sweet, and when we do sexual stuff I like it. I get uhm .. wet. Sorryyy. I recently got advice to look out for any girl crushes. And I’m really scared about that now. Maybe I can crush on a girl and maybe I can’t. I don’t know anymore. I feel completely unsure of everything. Im not sure if I’m straight or not. I recently started to take quizzes again. I either got straight or bisexual. And idk can anyone give advice? Thanks for reading through all of this if you did.
I feel like I’m starting to deny my sexuality. Before this I never really thought about girls that way. Now I am and it terrifies me. It feels like I just don’t wanna accept that I’m lesbian. I’m so damn lost. It feels like I know I’m lesbian. But I just can’t be. Anyone feel this way? Probably reassurance but if any of you think I am or it seems like I am please tell me.
I’ve honestly given up at this point. I mean, there’s just no way around this. I went to therapy. I’ve been on medication for 8 months. Yet, this topic is still the core of my thoughts every. single. day. It seems like I’m fighting something that’s true about myself. And, maybe acceptance will be the first major step to feeling better. Idk. I feel like maybe I’ve been bi my whole life, but was just focused on guys and now it’s developed into both if that makes sense. Like maybe it was always in me, but I didn’t realize until now. So many bi people talk about this. They talk about feeling ashamed (me too) and always liking one sex before and then it changed. I know I have OCD, but, I’m not sure that this is a subset I have anymore. Everything is too real. I’ll miss the way I was before, but maybe I was never that girl before. It’s time to just accept I guess. No matter how heartbreaking it is.
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