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Probably the biggest was when I conquered rumination. That stopped the months-long periods of anxiety, which Iād had my whole life up to that point.
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@dirholly I can relate!
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Incredible!!! Don't forget how far you've come :)
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@dirholly Do share tips!
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How exactly did you do that? This is my biggest issue, to stop ruminating. I feel so helpless when it's overwhelming.
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First session of ERP! I didnāt actually believe facing my fears would heal me until I did it. Still, it surprises me every time.
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Facing your fears can be so hard. Keep up the great work!
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Egosyntonic vs. egodystonic
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@CaseyDemk May you explain this?
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Yep!
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@Anonymous Following a life of our values. Who we are and what we believe in. Not giving every to lies and things against our values
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When I realized content didnāt matter. No matter what my ocd was attacking, all was treated the same.
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@Burrchick95 Same here!!
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ERP >>>
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@Burrchick95 Thatās a good one.
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Iāve had so many of these , they are wonderful. One of my favorites was when I realized that I can do the opposite of whatever my ocd wants me to do both as an exposure, and as a way of following my values. Two huge things at once!
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Thanks for sharing this! Love it so much!!
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Getting diagnosed and realizing that I am not crazy, I don't have to hide my thoughts anymore. It's just OCD
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When I realized I was finally doing what I wanted, not what my OCD wanted. I was finally separating myself from my disorder.
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ooo LOVE this! So important to be living by your values, not by OCD!!
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When my therapist pointed out that I would never be satisfied (by engaging in my compulsions)
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Stopping compulsions is hard but worth the reward!!!
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I asked my therapist, āWhen are we going to start doing exposures?ā And she said, āWeāre doing them right now.ā It literally didnāt sink in for two weeks and then one day I was like ohhhhhhhh
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Keep it up!
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Realizing I just have to do nothing. It is more unlearning. Sure there are helpful tips and tricks and ERP was necessary at first for me at first but at the end of the day just realize whatās happening, that you will never ever ever win the battle with your thoughts, trust it is OCD, and just do what you wanna do anyways no matter what OCD says. The answer will always be the same, to not engage and just focus on what youāre doing. Thereās no other magical answer that is better maybe other ways of saying it butā¦trusting that I already know what to do.
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" that you will never ever ever win the battle with your thoughts, trust it is OCD" is so great! Thanks for this reminder!
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Iāve had many, but one of them was realising when it was OCD speaking vs real me. Noticing sensations of ocd anxiety vs me.
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Learning RPMs and how to use them was very helpful.
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@Anonymous What is RPMs?
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@Anonymous Response Prevention Messaging
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Love it!!
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I would say two things: one was the the realization that if I make the rules, I can change them. The other, and this has to do with compulsions, is the concept of delay ā as in, I wonāt do it again now, Iāll do it later. Then the urge disappears. Or I forget, which produces that same result.,
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Looove this. This will definitely give others hope
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When I did an exposure that I really did not want to and actively avoided. Then one day I threw caution to the wind and did the exposure. Has made OCD less scary for sure.
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Yessss, this is awesome!
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That there was a program that if I follow will help me
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When I realized that a thought that comes with a feeling doesnāt mean it will happen/come true
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The moment I did ERP and realized that my worst fears were only in my head
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oooo OCD is such a liar!
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Recognizing and being mindful of when Iām ruminating on an intrusive thought.
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Great one!!
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Understanding no one can guarantee certainty no matter how hard you try it will never be 100% fail proof. Bad can happen š„ŗ
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Yes.. 100% certainty isn't real! Learning to live with that uncertainty is so key
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I donāt remember things have clicked way too many times in the last month. I can remember the first
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@Anonymous74 Canāt
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Let's go! That's awesome!!
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Embracing the idea of āI canāt knowā. It provided a surprising amount of relief, rather than stoking the anxiety of uncertainty!
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THIS! Love it!
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1. When my therapist helped me understand that what I Feared was loss of connection and how I'm already losing connection by what I'm doing. 2. When I finally understood that I can't just do the exposure, I need to embrace the uncertainty. And that I WANT to.
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Embracing the uncertainty is hard but so worth it!
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Noticing and labeling āthis is OCDā not me and my personal identity.
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Realizing that I am not my brain. I am not my thoughts and my thoughts aren't ME! š”moment. My brain and and my mind are not the same. That my brain has been hijacked by this OCD jerk, and needs a little rewiring of the circuit board, so that it doesn't combust, over heat or fall apart. One day at a time. I am relearning all of this again during this recent flare with OCD
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So you got to ask me anything⦠Now Iād like to ask you something! Iāve heard from Members that they were so scared coming to their first ERP session. They were terrified that I would think they were crazy, that I would tell them their worst fears were true. That I would confirm they are some form of a terrible person or have them hauled off to prison for their thoughts. Iāve also had Members share how theyāre very scared to begin ERP treatment because theyāve researched enough to know it means facing the fear, without the compulsions that have kept them feeling safe (but not really safe) this entire time. They struggled to see how they could be capable of doing this, while simultaneously acknowledging that they did not want to live like this anymore. If you have had your first session, what were your thoughts before? Did you have any hesitations or fears going into it? How did it turn out? If you havenāt yet begun to work with an ERP specialist, what is holding you back?
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Can someone please tell me at what point did you finally accept that itās OCD? When did the ERP click for you? When did you just stop buying into the lies of OCD and finally let go? Like what does it take. Itās been 2 years of this for me and Iām in ERP currently and itās just not clicking š£ is it just me???
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Iāve been thinking a lot about how OCD changes the way we see ourselves, but I recently realized that I am not my thoughts. Just because a thought pops up doesnāt mean itās true or that it defines me. Iāve started learning how to see OCD for what it isājust a disorder trying to trick meāand Iāve become stronger in dealing with it. Has anyone else here had a similar realization? How do you handle these thoughts when they show up?
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