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- Wolfram
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- 32w ago
How do you see ocd?
How do you all see ocd? I see a lot of demonised perspectives on it. Just curious as to how you view it.
How do you all see ocd? I see a lot of demonised perspectives on it. Just curious as to how you view it.
I look at it from a different way. I’ve seen people make analogies between OCD and a crying baby and how you have to pay no attention to the intrusive thoughts just like you wouldn’t to a child who wouldn’t stop crying for it to stop crying eventually. Some people call it a “bully” in their head. I completely understand that people choose to look at their ocd in this way but I have a different perspective. I like to think that ocd is just my brain trying to protect me from what it considers as “danger” and that’s why it sends me so many false alarms. Ofc, my brain is trying to protect me but I have to understand that it’s doing the wrong job. It’s trying to save me from things I don’t need to be saved from because the threat isn’t actually real even if it feels to be that way. It’s very frustrating, debilitating and depressing to have ocd and I totally get that people demonise it and I have too at times when it becomes very unbearable but this is my overall understanding and I think it comes from a place of compassion for my mind. It makes me feel more human. This understanding has helped me be kinder towards myself and less angry at my brain for being this way
I like this. I saw it as a demon in my teen years and then apart of me with other themes. Now, years later I see it as an innocent reaction by a brain designed to protect us.
@Wolfram Yes exactly
It’s a malfunction of the brain that I do not take seriously.
I made a decision not to view ocd in scary monster terms, as it just made it worse, like I was believing in its storyline. When I started erp here it was suggested to give ocd a character I could talk back to. At first this was the bunny from Donnie Darko, but that was again, scary. So I changed it to the actor John candy, like an over worried anxious neurotic uncle who’s just trying to look out for me, then put him in a bunny suit to add to the character being not really scary. So to me now ocd is John candy in a bunny suit I thank him for his worries, he’s just trying to look out for me, I say “I’m busy right now, nothing to stress about, I’m drawing and don’t have time for something so trivial” or “yea yea whatever, it might happen, it might not, I don’t care, you always go on about stuff” the picture him sulking off into the other room
This made me laugh. Glad this works for you 😊
Perfectly normal.
In what sense?
@Wolfram I mean it's not even particularly rare but anything that occurs in people is technically normal.
Are there any demisexuals on here that struggle with SO-OCD (I'm a straight woman, or so I think I am). It's a struggle to know what's OCD and what isn't
Sometimes when I ruminate or try to disprove my themes (I know I shouldn’t do it but sometimes it’s to overwhelming and I can’t help it I’ve been getting better with it though) it feels like I’m arguing with another person, like there’s another person living in my head and they try to disprove everything I do, it’s usually a different voice from my own but when it’s really fucking with me it’s my own voice and it’s irritating, it just feels like another person lives in my head like there a bad influence and tell me to do all this shit and it’s horrible, I know it’s ocd but it just feels like another person in my head who’s constantly against me and everything I believe and when I argue I get literally no where it pulls shit out of its ass and says the most absurd shit and it makes me feel horrible, just wanted to know if anyone else’s ocd feels like it comes in the form of another person that’s living in your head?
im Catholic and ever since starting highschool and started being scared of what people are thinking. I’m scared that I’m evil and that I praise evil because my ocd is a fear of talking to it so my compulsion is to focuse on talking to something or someone else. But, I keep imagining evil like under the ground and now it feels like I know its personality. And I can’t imagine it as truly evil and I can’t even imagine God anymore. Please help
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