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ROCD (ex relationship)
Does anyone ever miss their ex and wonder if it was even the right choice to break up with them and you get the urge to go back? I sometimes feel this way even though I’m with someone new but whenever I miss my ex it makes me question if I even love my current boyfriend or not and sometimes I compare them both when I shouldn’t. I remember being happy about breaking up with my ex as I wasn’t getting the communication I wanted and maybe OCD had something to do with it but I’m not sure. My ex also tried getting me to go back with him when I was talking to someone else at the time not only that but our last call he called me all mad and accusing me of comparing our relationship to the one where I was talking to a guy when really I didn’t even compare them both at all. But it did shook me that he was acting like this but also i understood how hurt he was and I did feel guilty. But it’s just been hard and me missing my ex definitely doesn’t help with questioning if I love my current boyfriend or not as it just adds on more stress. Does anyone else relate to this? If so, how did you move forward?