What if i don't have OCD?

Hello everyone, after a long time. I want some advice about this topic and i want to get things off my chest. Since my partner dumped me, my OCD has been so quiet. My (r)OCD was extremely severe when i was with him, i was anxious, ruminating, doing compulsions 24/7. But now things has been changed. I know i need to be greatful but i don't know, something feels off. For a really long time, i don't ruminate and do compulsions like i used to do. I feel so tired and i avoid doing compulsions or ruminating because it stresses me out, so i runaway and avoid doing compulsions. Im in newly recovery and im taking meds, i don't know if they are working or not but, i feel like i don't have OCD anymore. I don't ruminate, i don't do compulsions like i used to do or when i have an intrusive thought, i try to notice and say "its OCD." And avoid compulsions. Like, i feel like i suddenly recovered. How is this even possible? And this has been like that for a long time. I still get intrusive thoughts and some still do make me feel bad, i still do some compulsions but not like i used to do. They go easily. I valued my partner so much that i was extremely scared to do any bad thing towards to him, i was stressing about everg single thing. But now he is gone, i have less things to stress. Like i said, i still have so-OCD or pure OCD and some other themes. But they are not that extreme. I read my OCD book today and it triggerred me, it was saying "Ocd counts as a disorder when it distorts you and retain you from daily life, if not, then its not a disorder. Its normal." That was like that before, but now it doesn't bother my daily life like it used to be. I know this is a good thing but not for me. What if i don't have OCD? Then what was the all things that happened to me? If i have OCD, i cant have that only on one topic, right? (Relationship) Lastly, OCD used to make me feel like i was in hell. Like, it made me feel so damn horrible that i couldn't eat for days, i was about to off mslf. But now, it feels like OCD is not even there. I don't know. I don't know whats going on. It feels weird to not to be anxious all the time, enjoying life and everything. Its weird. I am greatful, but also scared. What if i don't have OCD? What if i never had it and lied to everyone?

"Pure" OCD

Nicolas:)

Date posted: 51w

Well I mean, that doesn't mean you didn't had OCD, that just mean that the object of the obssesion is gone, it's kind of hard to have ROCD if you are not in a relationship

JessIsConfused

Date posted: 51w

I think you wondering if you have ocd and ruminating about it is your ocd in a different form! It is sneaky like that. Sometimes our brains don’t let us rest and when the object of our obsession is done it moves on to something it knows it will make you nervous. It sounds like the meds and practices are working! And so your ocd is coming at you in another form. It does that to me all the time, telling me I don’t have it.

walkingocd

Date posted: 51w

Oh i see, thank you for explaining it to me. I still get so anxious about the theme of my personality being dirty and bad, etc. But since my main obsession is gone, i was expriencing a confusing thing. Im thankful to you for explaining 💙

Pushingpissed

Date posted: 24w

Feeling “normal” again

Anyone else feel that when they aren’t experiencing a theme that their ocd is almost non existent. It almost makes me feel like I’ve been faking it, and also makes me feel ridiculous for obsessing over things. I feel sorry for myself :/ I know that my themes are valid and felt very real in the moment, but after I “get over” them I just can’t believe that I was obsessing over something that either wasn’t true or didn’t apply to me. I would also like to know how to prevent themes from reoccurring. Health, religion and existential OCD themes tend to take turns throughout my life, I just didn’t know that was it ocd. Trying to break the cycle.

Anonymous

Date posted: 22w

Help?

So, I don't know if anyone's going to comment on this post, but I've been doing pretty badly lately. I suffered from a second relapse of OCD around nearly a year ago, back when I first experienced OCD, I had all the symptoms, researching, crying none-stop, suicidal, etc, but now that it's been almost four years of this same theme. It doesn't feel nearly as bad anymore? It's almost like it brings me happiness??? I see people saying with confidence that they'd never do their intrusive thoughts but I can't agree with them, I'm not confident I won't do them, a few years ago, I'd say I'd NEVER do them and I would rather kill myself before doing them but now I can't say it. I don't know what's going on anymore and what makes it worse I think is that my feelings are all over the place, a part of me wants to give up while the other part of me is still fighting and I'm crying right now as I write this but I don't even know if I'm scared. Sometimes I just let myself "enjoy" the intrusive thoughts because I'm so tired and everytime I look at a reddit post about someone saying that they felt guilty for enjoying an intrusive thought, I don't feel that same emotion, and I keep researching and researching. It doesn't feel like OCD anymore. I can't even say I'm scares for the right reasons, my brain keeps telling me that I'm only scared because I don't want others to look down on me and the truth is that I actually "enjoy" the thoughts and I simply don't want to be looked down upon on society. I don't know what to do, I want to go in the bathroom and cry until I disappear

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lonelytype

Date posted: 22w

Help appreciated

Its been around a year now that ive struggled heavily with intrusive thoughts. I haven’t noticed it in my other years, aside from when i was a young kid. I want to get diagnosed with OCD or try to see what my therapist will say. Ive been summing up the courage to speak about this for months now and i have an appointment on the 26th. I feel like im ready to finally talk about it will someone, yet one thing is holding me back. The doubt. I started struggling HEAVILY with OCD symptoms around march of 2024. I mean rumination, compulsions, shame, disgust, etc. It was one of the worsts points of my like and it cared on from January-Late august of 2024. I was literally in distress everyday of my life. I had constant intrusive thoughts that would go away, and unbearable anxiety. Yet around september hit they started getting EASIER to mange. (remember that, they didnt go away, i just wasnt as effected) I was quite happy i could live a little without pain and that carried from Sept-December 2024. But then January hit again, and everything just seems to flow right back to me. I cant stop thinking about how i used to feel, the pain i was in. Everyday my brain wants me to remember the anguish i was put through. I finally decided i will talk about this to my Therapist. My only doubt is that, everything is much easier for me to deal with, and my anxiety isnt as strong. I still have intrusive thoughts and suffer with performing compulsions, but i dont ruminate anymore. That should be a good thing but my brain tells me that means my feelings arent valid, and i dont have OCD cause things are better. Im sorry for this long read, i just need to get this off my chest. How do i talk to my therapist about wanting to get an evaluation, when most of my main hard aspects in OCD are in the past? (AKA the past i suppressed and shut down)Any help is appreciated. 😕

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