I noticed myself not understanding why things are wrong like I be having thoughts like "why would cheating be bad" and I just actually find it hard to find a reason? The only things I know are bad are like being mean and doing crimes but like damn
It’s completely normal to question and explore concepts of morality, especially as you grow and develop your own values and beliefs. Relationships whether romantic or professional are built on trust. Cheating undermines that trust, which can lead to significant emotional pain for those involved. Cheating often involves deception. Being honest with others is a fundamental aspect of healthy relationships, and cheating goes against that principle. Cheating can show a lack of respect for the other person’s feelings, their needs, and the relationship itself. Respecting others is a key value in most ethical frameworks. Cheating can have wide-ranging consequences, not only for the individuals directly involved but also for friends, family, and the broader community. It can lead to heartbreak, broken families, or loss of friendships.you can put yourself in their shoes. Many people believe in fairness and the idea that relationships should involve equal effort and commitment from both parties. Cheating disrupts this balance. Questioning why certain actions are wrong can lead to important self-reflection. It’s a sign of critical thinking and a desire to understand the world more deeply. Engaging in discussions with others, reading philosophical texts, or exploring moral theories can help you weigh different perspectives. It’s also worth noting that as you grow and experience more of life, your understanding of these concepts might evolve. It's okay to have questions, and seeking answers can lead to a deeper understanding of your values and the values of those around you.
Thank you!❤️ As much as I'm not that worried because I don't have anyone to cheat on anyway
Consider it from both perspectives: if you accept being cheated on, then you should also accept cheating. However, this raises another question: why enter a commitment to remain faithful to each other in the first place?
Idk honestly I feel like I wouldn't be sad if someone cheated on me but its prob I haven't been in any serious relationship lol😭
I’m worried I’m an actual horrible person and using these as excuses…. I know nobody will understand this and will get confused but I can’t keep pretending everything is okay anymore:( Basically, for a long time, I would think “oh this is wrong, I shouldn’t do it” then a few months later I would be doing that thing? Like this was forever ago but I think about it, how did I not know things were bad when I thought that way? I mean I knew in reality I never actually knew what was okay and what wasn’t okay, and I only went off of what people told me, or the kind of people I was around 11-16 .. I regret these actions and I always end up crying, how did I not know??… I know I didn’t know but … I don’t know…
I keep feeling like I would find these things attractive and I keep catching myself thinking about it and agreeing with it and being like “yeah I would, oooh” and I’m like what the hell just happened??? Why does that happen?? I was so sure I wouldn’t do that but now I’m afraid All I know is I never be aware that they’re a kid till it’s too late, but at the same time I feel like I am aware that it is
I don’t expect anyone to give me any reassurance that I’m a good person, because I doubt it heavily now. I don’t want to fight anymore, I can’t do it. I’m a bad person. I can’t see the light anymore I don’t think I can get better from this anymore, I think I’m gonna give up, I’m actually gonna give up, this is actually really bad that I did this, this is my proof I’m a bad person, I thought about it so I just can’t. basically I saw a a picture of 12 year old boy, and I kept testing how I felt, now I don’t know why I did this cause I know it’s wrong, meaning not good, but basically my brain was like “do you think he’s handsome” and I said “maybe I don’t know, I don’t think he’s handsome. He might be” and oh my god I can’t believe I said something like this, I know some will say “oh it might be intrusive” but I can’t anymore. I feel like I’m done. I don’t even know what kind of handsome I meant, all I know is that I was NOT trying to be disgusting in any shape or form but I can’t stand it, I can’t do this anymore
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