Anonymous
- Date posted
- 5y ago
juliabgnjuliabgn
- Date posted
- 5y ago
there are plenty of women with short hair, and every women experienced not wanting to be a girl because everyone supresses our wants and needs whilst they don’t with a boy. Everyone experiences this.
ReptileReptile
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Where’s your proof that everyone suppresses women’s wants and needs? My mom is an ample representation of a women who has wants and needs and got all of her wants and needs. She is the Vice President of her company, she is a millionaire. Who tried to suppress her wants and needs? It’s similar with my other family who are female. Some women live terrible lives, and some live very successful lives. That’s just life. And there are plenty of times I got my wants and needs suppressed and ignored, and I am a male. So it’s not gender exclusive.
ReptileReptile
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Of course I don’t mean to be rude or argue, I simply disagree with you.
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 5y ago
@TheReptileCyka I know this is really irrelevant but your mom sounds awesome
juliabgnjuliabgn
- Date posted
- 5y ago
the society supresses it doesn’t matter what it’s like individually, if your mom or aunt or whatever didn’t do this to you i’m not accusing them, and they’re not the rule the’re the exceltion. Abyway i’m having a really awful crisis so, no time just wanted to help her feel safe and not doubt herself and obssess even more.
ReptileReptile
- Date posted
- 5y ago
All I’m asking for proof, that’s all really. I have a large problem making large claims like this without any proof. And to margo1, I understand what your going through. I have TOCD myself, it likes to go back to my past and twist it in it’s own image. I get it, but the absolute best way to look at it is this, what do you currently want? It doesn’t matter what you wanted in the past. That means jack shit, it all depends on what you want today, not the past. Accept this fact, and it will help you move on. Although I HIGHLY recommend ERP Therapy.
juliabgnjuliabgn
- Date posted
- 5y ago
History is the proof. Women are opressed is the proof. And this is the worst place EVER for this debate, you are a very insensitive person.
ReptileReptile
- Date posted
- 5y ago
How am I being insensitive? All I asked for is proof. Society has taken great strides on men and women being equal. Look at America’s laws, in no way are they gender exclusive. Literally all I asked for is true proof in the modern day and age. You’ll find that there is NONE. Case closed.
juliabgnjuliabgn
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Men and women are equal now???? Society has improved on this??? get out of your bubble here in my country we can’t do shit. And THIS is how you’re being insensitive, having this debate on a person’s post about having a crisis. While I’m aldo having a crisis but I’m still replying to try and make the person from the post welcome and secure. This is my first day on this app and I don’t feel good at all about it because of you. You are making a crusade out of a reasonable statement i’ve made to make this person feel secure because I, like her, wanted a place to feel secure and understood, without judgement.
ReptileReptile
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I have an easy fix to prevent it, you shouldn’t have pulled a liberal opinion into this you said “there are plenty of women with short hair, and every women experienced not wanting to be a girl because everyone supresses our wants and needs whilst they don’t with a boy. Everyone experiences this.” You put a political opinion into a comment, and I WILL NOT tolerate a political agenda being pushed to drag other people to believe it. A comment like mine was BOUND to happen. Now, I believe we are done here.
juliabgnjuliabgn
- Date posted
- 5y ago
it’s not political to say how everyone feels inadequate with their sex. i’m not a liberal btw and you can’t tell me when “it’s done”. I’m so sorry for arguing in your post margo1. But his arguments are dishonest and i don’t want you to have a one sided view from this, so I won’t just “shut up” and take this.
ReptileReptile
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I’m sorry as well margo1 But I won’t stand idle as someone tries to drag you down because your a woman. You are a beautiful person with wants and needs like everyone else, and I truly believe that you’ll have your hopes and dreams. I suffer from the same shit, but we’ll get through this. I can promise you that. Don’t let either of our arguments conflict with yours. Our arguments don’t mean shit to you. You choose your own path, let that be her’s, mine, or neither, I’ll support you either which way.
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 5y ago
Thank you guys :’) even if we all have different views it’s okay because all of us here are just going through the same thing and we all get along in the end. I’m just glad the actual arguments here aren’t stupid and full of rage.
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