I really want someone to tell me that even if I am really a pedo that they would still love me. Idk. I know it won't cure my distress but it does help a little knowing I would have unconditional love from somebody... I'm so scared that I won't.
dont be scared that you wont.... but if i was around and i loved a person, i would do everything in my power to help them..... not just love them but be there for them.... listen we dont know each other and im not around you.... but im telling you that thats what i would do..... i hope that makes you feel better :) maybe this can give you hope tht there is somoene out there for you that will treat you that way
thank you.. that does make me feel a little better ;-; ā”ā”ā”
@š - how are you feeling today
Hey, I donāt know if you believe in God but for me, I find so much comfort in knowing that Jesus loves me unconditionally. He is the reason why I have hope and I have joy, eventhough I struggle with ocd. I believe that he loves you too!š¤
its good to believe in G-D, but not in jesus, he was just a human being.... G-D is the creator of the universe and he's the only one that can help
@the phycologist I guess we have a different believe then :) the bible states clearly that Jesus is the Son of God!
@Blumenkohl1 - please show me where in the bible it says that, bec. ive been studying religion for over 20 years and i never came across it ( and thats bec. it doesnt exist)
@the phycologist Read romans, read hebrews, just read the new testament - and ask God to reveal himself to you. Faith doesnāt come through your own understanding or your mind, faith is produced by God and his grace alone. You canāt be christian if you donāt believe in Jesus, because John 3:16 states: āGod so loved the world that he gave is only begotten SON, so that whoever believes will not perish but have everlasting life.ā Jesus is king!
@Blumenkohl1 - exactly the only profe you can bring is from the new testament emphasis on the word "new".... i believe in G-D and his word which is the first testiment.... i dont believe in the new one bec. there is no proof to it, its just A bunch of gospels that claimed that jesus is the son of G-D NO PROOF just Hearsay , So no i dont believe in nonsense only in G-D.... i can prove the existence of G-D you can not prove anything about jesus.... so no one should believe in hum or turn to him bec. he cant help you, only the creator of the world could. i ask you to tell me wear it says that he is the messia or the son of G-D and all you bring me is the new testament which was made up and written by his students, Not by G-D.... anyone who reads this should be smart and realise that on the creator of the universe can help you.
@the phycologist Absolutely does the old testament talk about Jesus. Isaiah 53, Jeremiah 23, Isaiah 48:16 etc etc. I could go on and on but I dont think that it would make a difference in your belief. The bible in itself is whole and good and true. If you donāt want to believe that, I cant change that. If youāre really interested in wanting to know the truth - PRAY. Jesus revealed himself already to millions of people, through dreams, visions etc. I know that for me, it is my greatest treasure that I get to believe in Jesus and his death and resurrection, because I now I know that I will get to spend eternity with him. God bless!
@Blumenkohl1 - dreams mean nothing bec. i can dream about being superman if i think about it during the day.... and trust me i know what im talking about, ive been studying religion for over 20 years. but im sorry to say but you clearly aren't educated in this area, (which is ok you dont have to be but just dont guess) bec. you just called in Isaiah and psalms as part of the first testament when they're not, they are part of prophets, not the first testament and it never mentions once jesus in ay of the places you mentioned not in isaiah 53 not in Psalms 22, 23 or 24. all of that was written almost 1,000 years before jesus was around, and if you look at those texts, it doesnt say a word about jesus being the messiah or the son of G-D.... im talking about the original Hebrew text.... just bec. some group of people 1,000 years later decide to translate it into their own language the way they wanted to means nothing.... those verses, talk about certain great people, it never mentions even once that jesus is that man....
hey how are you!
not very good still :( but I'm greatful for you asking so thank you <3
@š - not good, aw ;( wasnt hoping to hear that.... whats on your mind?
@š - hey, do you have a therapist that helps you through this
So Iām really struggling to believe that anyone will want to be in a relationship with me and still love me when they find out about my pocd and intrusive thoughts. I am holding a belief no one can love me with this condition and they will be repulsed by me when they find out. I just donāt know how to shake that feeling and be brave enough to try and share with anyone Iām dating.
I told a few people on social media about my OCD, including POCD and how distressing it is. But everyone went quiet, then a few hours later I posted that I donāt support pedophilia at all neither do I justify it or am a pedo. Then someone replied with: āI think someone might take it bc u have such an obsessive fear of it u might have actual p3 do philic tendenciesā I canāt do this anymore, Iām terrified to spiral again like a few months ago but Iām on the brink of doing it again. Iām shaking and stressing tf out I hate this so so so so so much
18+ TW! Involves sexual content I have learning disabilities which means im always going to be 3-5 years mentally behind from my actual ageā¦ when I was 14 I remember finding people saying they work with kids āattractiveā and I remember mastu*** over a kid around 5+ but when I was 14 I was either mentally age 11 or 9. So I didnāt know it was wrong, and as soon as I realised I stopped. People say I was young and itās okay but I remember finding people saying they even walked past a nursery āattractiveā but I donāt know if this is even the right word. Maybe cute? Because I find different emotions hard to tell the difference between, so maybe itās cute rather than attractive. I never ever had intentions to do anything to younger individuals, it was just me finding people saying they worked with them etc attractiveā¦ which my ocd now plays on, because my friend mentioned they were working with kids but idk if it was the real me or not but I genuinely felt like I found it attractive and it was giving my so many groinal responses which then made me feel genuinely aroused like I wanted to do things. This plays on my mind because my ocd will always say ābut you did/do find stuff like this attractiveā but this literally stops me from eating, sleeping or anything. I canāt break from my compultions because what if I do genuinely find it attractive. I donāt think itās even attractive maybe itās cute? Like I find it cuteā¦ but cuteness can give people feelings down there I guess. I think because if my learning disabilities I found it hard to know the difference between āattractionā and cute so I did stuff over it because it gave me that feeling down there but that could of been cuteness feeling. I just need some support on this.
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