- Date posted
- 31w
ROCD - Feelings
I think maybe after having some clear and clarity. Feelings of “No interest” and “I don’t want to” when approached with things in the relationship are tell tale signs that you know when a relationship does reach incompatibility. Sorry if this is triggering but I feel that when it brings you more unhappiness and exhaustion then it is saying something I need to listen to. And the clarity of a truth that I do not like and need to make an action is anxiety provoking because it’s a negative to initially break up regardless. But I’m just feeling after when you know and feel it and it is more draining. It is saying something. I believe that if you love your SO, you know and the thoughts and feelings go against what you value/what you want. And my feelings are always the opposite and met with anxiety which leads me to believe that it is wrong?