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How do you stop OCD before it starts
So maybe the title wasn't the best to to put it but when you guys start having obsessive thoughts how do you stop them before it turns into compulsions and anxiety?
So maybe the title wasn't the best to to put it but when you guys start having obsessive thoughts how do you stop them before it turns into compulsions and anxiety?
I am not sure if this will help but it has helped me recently :) I can't always stop the thoughts but I try to recognize that they are out of my control and redirect my actions/thoughts as best as I can by focusing on a separate activity or physical movement. I saw a post recently showing the difference in neural activity across psychiatric disorders, and OCD was full of various hills and valleys when compared to the other waves. In these "valleys", neural activity gets stuck, which to me represents the consuming feeling of obsessive thoughts. When I've felt thoughts coming on recently, I try to visualize the "ball" of neural activity in a valley, and then work on pushing the ball out and back on "track", which is also my way of pushing out the negative thoughts. I hope this helps you somehow!
It takes practice and trial & error, and over time you’ll find what works best for you. When you do feel the anxiety come in, you can address it before it worsens. I like to verbally say what my OCD wants me to do, then announce how I will address it instead. For example, I worked through driving OCD. It’s very manageable now, but there are moments where my OCD wants to sneak in. So I’ll say out loud, “ok OCD, you want me to ruminate over getting into a car accident. But I’m going to drive anyway, and not give in to the rumination. Maybe I’ll crash my car, maybe I won’t.” Sometimes I add humor, like “it would be so hilarious if I get into an accident. I hope I do. I would laugh and laugh.” It helps lessen the feeling that my thoughts are urgent. If I do end up doing a compulsion, I’ll acknowledge that I did and why (like what reassurance I was seeking by doing the compulsion), and resolving to not continue. When I’m stressed, I’ll re-direct by saying “ok OCD, you can hang out while I keep working, I’m going to ignore you but you can come along.” Overall what helps me is just grounding myself by understanding my OCD is coming up and what my plan is. I also work on not listening when my OCD tries to convince me that some made up scenario or intrusive thought is urgent. Follow your values and the OCD gets quieter 😊
Thank you for sharing this! I think I get it but could you expand on having a "plan" I may be over thinking it or just don't understand entirely but I'd really appreciate it!
@Anonymous Of course! So for me, my plan is how I want to face my thoughts and how I’ll continue going on with my day. Sometimes, that may be a plan of reminding myself that I will not ruminate, until the urge to do so lessens. Other times, the plan could be to do exactly what my OCD doesn’t want me to do. Yesterday I drove to San Francisco, and my ocd was coming up. So my plan was to drive anyway, and to not cancel my trip to be “safe” like my OCD wanted. And my plan was to remind myself that my values right now are to live my life. So it depends on how severe my OCD feels, but my plan is my personal reminder of how I’ll work against my OCD
@MichelleV Thank you!
So while you can't exactly stop your OCD -- it is, for better and for worse, a part of all of us at a cellular level -- you can treat it with Exposure and Response Prevention tools. There's really no way to stop or prevent the anxiety created by these intrusive thoughts, but you CAN prevent the compulsions. The anxiety is what triggers the compulsions so, if you sit with that anxiety (rather than running from it or trying to "fix it" by doing compulsions), and you face that anxiety and those troubling thoughts head on without do a compulsion, gradually you will start to experience relief and those thoughts, and that anxiety, and by proxy those compulsions, will all start to diminish... Hang in there and keep at it!
Hello! I'm new here and new to OCD. My therapist suggested I might have OCD due to my tendency to ruminate endlessly on doubts and fears. These thoughts are indeed intrusive and I can't seem to stop them. The thing I'm kind of stuck on is that I can't see where the compulsions come in. Unless the thoughts themselves are compulsions. Can anyone relate to this?
When I was a child, before I knew this was OCD, I struggled with constant "magical thinking" compulsions (don't step on the crack or mom's back will actually break, etc). When I later learned this was OCD, it almost immediately solved it. Any time I got a magical thought, I would say to myself "that's just an OCD thought. ignore it." and it just stopped coming! Like seriously it fixed the magical thinking stuff forever. But of course the OCD has resurfaced in other ways. So naturally, I've tried to use the same strategy since I had so much success with it previously. But I wonder sometimes if telling myself "that's just OCD" is almost functioning as a reassurance compulsion? I hate how meta this gets. For example, I have ROCD that comes and goes. So sometimes I'll get a thought like "what if i'm still in love with my ex?" and then I'll tell myself "that's obviously just an ROCD thought" and will feel relief, almost like reassurance. But it comes back. So is telling myself that it's OCD a reassurance compulsion ?? It's just so weird because it worked so perfectly as a kid with the magical thinking thing.
I’ve been thinking a lot about how OCD changes the way we see ourselves, but I recently realized that I am not my thoughts. Just because a thought pops up doesn’t mean it’s true or that it defines me. I’ve started learning how to see OCD for what it is—just a disorder trying to trick me—and I’ve become stronger in dealing with it. Has anyone else here had a similar realization? How do you handle these thoughts when they show up?
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