Anonymous
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WisteriaWisteria
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I don't even like when other people see my skin lmao ??.
AnonymousAnonymous
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Saame!
WisteriaWisteria
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Lmao I can relate to that, maybe they're possibly dressed in shorts that look like they could be the size of a bikini or whatever, and what looks like a bra?
WisteriaWisteria
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With the dating part, I think you would have an idea by finding out if you're comfortable with your own gender or the opposite gender. With what seems like maybe wanting to be transgender, don't ever do something major such as surgery that you can not change if you regret the decision. If you don't like your reputation/image/identity but you're not sure if it makes you fall in to this category where you think you should be something you're not, (TRIGGER WARNING BECAUSE I'M NOT AGAINST TRANSGENDER RIGHTS) I would say you have to teach yourself to accept the person that you're born as, and have the professional help (if you feel the need to) to find as much positivity in your life as possible. Hopefully you don't feel as if you've ever been discriminated because only a man can do certain things you might look odd doing (as a guess for now)? I'd love to hear what your thoughts are and if I need to explain more.
AnonymousAnonymous
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I’ve always really liked how I look and never had dysphoria but really the more I think about it the more I realize how much more tomboyish over the years I’ve become. I keep looking back at times I was feminine and asking myself “was I uncomfortable? how did I feel?” but I don’t even get bothered by the thought of being transgender. Backdoor spike???
WisteriaWisteria
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@margo1 I thought when you mentioned the thought of becoming a man I was like hold on a minute ?.
WisteriaWisteria
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@margo1 But yeah I can be both a tomboy and very girly.
AnonymousAnonymous
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@Wisteria I have tocd and my mind can’t accept it. The thought of being trans doesn’t bother me anymore and it’s messing with me because it’s like I know I’m a girl but do I really know I’m a girl??
WisteriaWisteria
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Are you getting therapy for this? Can I ask how long ago you thought of being transgender, what your reason was and how different you are now from then?
AnonymousAnonymous
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The first time I thought of being transgender was when I was 11 and I didn’t even worry about it. It was just a passing thought and I legit thought “lol I might be” because I was a tomboy. Once I said “I’d rather be a boy than a girl” (I knew I was lying). I’ve never felt like I’m in the wrong body. The only thing is that in uncomfortable being in a swimsuit but I think that was mostly because of body hair. And I don’t really like being naked. Also I didn’t like my boobs around age 13, even though at the start of puberty i was so excited to wear a bra and everything. I even wanted to get my period so I could be a “real girl”.
AnonymousAnonymous
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@margo1 Also no I’m not getting therapy
WisteriaWisteria
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I relate very much with the swimsuits lol. I've never wanted to wear bikinis or two pieces.
AnonymousAnonymous
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Same! Lol I would always look at myself and be like do I look ok? All the fucking time?
WisteriaWisteria
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Do people ever think you're a nun?
AnonymousAnonymous
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No but in the summer people ask me “lol aren’t u hot in that?”
WisteriaWisteria
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Do you get creeped out easily?
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