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Difference between coping and compulsion?
What exactly is the difference between the two?
What exactly is the difference between the two?
A compulsion can be seen as a way of coping, but it’s usually an unhealthy or ineffective one. Coping strategies are meant to manage stress or anxiety in a balanced way, while compulsions are driven by obsessive thoughts and performed to relieve the anxiety those thoughts cause. The problem is, compulsions don’t actually solve anything and can end up making things worse over time. So, while both coping and compulsions are ways we try to handle tough emotions or situations, compulsions tend to be repetitive, anxiety-driven, and don’t typically lead to good outcomes, unlike healthier coping strategies. Some examples of healthier strategies include: • Breathing exercises • Physical activity • Talking it out • Journaling • Meditation and mindfulness However, for people with OCD, even healthy coping strategies can turn compulsive, so it’s often suggested to implement them as part of a **routine** rather than an as-needed approach. For instance, you might try meditation every morning, physical exercise every other day, or journaling once at night. I hope this helps!
think of it this way, compulsions can be used to cope but not all coping skills are compulsions. you can have a non-compulsive coping skill.
Hey there! This can definitely be a complicated topic to unpack. In general, both coping skills and compulsions are used to reduce negative feelings that someone is having. The truth is, any coping skills can become compulsions. Any repetitive physical or mental behaviors used to relieve distress from obsessions is a compulsion. I have a really helpful article here for you that has more information on this topic: https://www.treatmyocd.com/blog/coping-skills-that-can-continue-the-ocd-cycle#h-the-gray-area-of-coping-skills In general though, coping skills are not bad in and of themselves. These skills can be beneficial in many areas of life, and should be used regularly if they are helpful to you. However, if you have OCD, certain coping skills, while they might feel helpful in the moment, are not helpful in beating OCD long-term.
I see a compulsion as anything you do to reduce anxiety from the obsession.
@Anonymous Isn’t a coping skill the same thing?
I did some gross compulsions, i do them because i think that if i do them i get rid of thoughts ( cause i don’t want them) that’s why I do compulsions but people do them to check am I a p? I’m terrified I can’t do it. What if im different I don’t think I heard about someone that did compulsions to get rid of thoughts that’s why but to check omg im terrified
I'm thinking of trying some ERP on my own while I wait for treatment, but I'm having some trouble knowing what is a compulsion and what would be good exposure. For example, I have huge fears of being a narcissist and/or a generally bad person. So whenever I watch a movie or read something that has an evil character in it I automatically compare myself to that character and stress over if I'm like that person. A couple of things I do when this happens is Google other people's experiences, seek reassurance, rumination, etc. Sometimes I'll also google different symptoms of narcissism, freak out over things that I relate to, then get relief over things I don't. So my confusion is, would researching people who have narcissism be an exposure, or a compulsion since it's something I sometimes do during a spiral? Or, would the exposure be watching movies/living life hearing these stories, and refraining from the spiral of rumination and no Googling at all?
If your mind purposely keeps fetching a repetitive word, and you’re afraid it will never go away, is the ERP therapy to STOP the mind from doing it? Or ALLOW the mind to do it, and not react? Also, is repeating a word in your head a mental compulsion? Or would that be the obsession? So then what’s the compulsion? Posting on here? Lol
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