kaysf
- Date posted
- 5y
Sunshine1Sunshine1
- Date posted
- 5y
I realate to all of this girls. Just know your not alone. ?
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 5y
I’m also scared about being asexual like I was crying and having a full blown panic attack yesterday because of it
kaysfkaysf
- Date posted
- 5y
what makes you worry about that?
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 5y
The thought about never finding a guy sexually attractive actually scares the living shit out of me even tho I know I’ve experienced sexual attraction before it’s like my ocd is making me anything but what i am heterosexual
kaysfkaysf
- Date posted
- 5y
yep i felt that. that’s what ocd does tho. and to be honest sometimes i even doubt that this is a form of ocd for me if i’m like omg what if it is ocd but then i actually turn out bi and i get really freaked out
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 5y
Same and one thing that scary with me is I’m not a boy crazy person but I know deep down I’m into boys so that also bothers me and makes me feel depressed but I do think it has to do with my mental health
kaysfkaysf
- Date posted
- 5y
not to be rude but i kind laughed at the part where you said it worries you that you’re not a boy crazy person bc it worries me that i am a boy crazy person. because i’m like omg is this just a cover up. and i get freaked out. and also because i saw something on social media of a girls friends saying she taught them all how to flirt with guys and how to do sexual things with a guy and she always had a bunch of boyfriends, and she’s gay no. so that kind of triggered me because she was boy crazy, and i kind of am too. but my hocd makes me think i’m bi because for some reason when this all started, it stuck with me that i like boys so then i was like omg you’re bi. it sucks because i don’t actually want to be with a girl or do anything with a girl but then i’m like do you and you just don’t know it. it’s awful
AnonymousAnonymous
- Date posted
- 5y
@kaysf I agree completely and it pisses me off that people will go lesbians love happy lives and accept the possiblity you are one and it’s like I know deep down I’m not and I just don’t want that to happen
kaysfkaysf
- Date posted
- 5y
@cloudqueen me tooo. i know deep down i’m not. but then again i don’t because i’m like do you really know? and i’m not sure about you but sometimes i get groinal responses and those freak me out soo much. to be honest feminine girls don’t trigger. it’s androgynous women who look exactly like men, who freak me out. and i don’t want to be rude saying that. so the reason they freak me out so much is because at the beginning of my hocd i was like omg they look like men so would i be attracted to them like men and i created a mental attachment because i freaked out so much over it. also because there’s been times when i see a lesbian who looked exactly like a man, like even my friends who are straight said “he” was hot and then i found out she was a girl and i freaked out. but a girl on the comments of that said that straight girls were attracted to her PHYSICALLY because she looks like a man and we are attracted to masculine features and to us it looks like a man. just like a straight boy would most likely be attracted to a boy who had long hair and had feminine facial features and dressed like a female and all of that. but it freaks me out bc i’m like omg if i find her physically attractive would i want to date her or do stuff with her. but tbh i’m always less attracted after i find out its a girl but then i question that and i’m like is this just me in denial
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