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Hey girl, I can tell this is really bothering you, but getting reassurance isn't going to help you. You've made several posts in the past couple of days about this, and other people have commented on those offering advice. You need to sit with that, and with this uncertainty. By taking attention away from these thoughts or worries, over time, OCD will begin to lose the power it has over us. I'm really sorry you're going through this, though :(

You should set boundries the moment they say they are a lot younger than you. I know you were a minor and most minors have no idea what they are doing, but for me personally 3 years age gap right now is a bit too far. There defintally should have been a stopping point before it got that far. Just start setting boundries now instead of later. The fact you feel scared you groomed her shows you dont want to be a groomer. Just set boundries