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uhh i guess I’ve learnt a lot more about the different sexualities and the spectrum ? (Since one of my compulsions used to be researching and doing sexuality tests)
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i do not see any benefit in hocd. its still ocd in the end but i get your question none the less. hard to say anything benificial, my compulsive problem is/was digging into porn and tbh i want to step away from that as much as i can. its not only because of the hocd but also of how badly porn affects our worldview.
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How does porn affect your view in life???
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@Peridottttt thats a long story but if you google the nofap community you might get a good view on that.
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@sn3k I think you’ll be more nervous talking someone your attracted to, maybe you’ll have a harder time to find a relationship
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@Peridottttt yes that is one of the things. also for example erectile dysfunction since your brain is wired to a screen and not something that is happening with a partner in real life. been there and after realising that i said i wanna stop this nonsense, its destroying my life, i spent way too much time in pornography from my youth on.
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@sn3k Yeah fapping is making you a loser, can be beneficial at time but I gotta stop
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@Peridottttt fapping without porn can be okay but with porn its like a taking your brain on a visualy drugfilled rollercoaster.
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@sn3k Oh I stop porn 2 years ago, and knowing I have hocd I will trigger the fuck outta me. So now I need to stop fapping, I don’t do it with porn. What is that ok I may ask why?
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@Peridottttt i meant just masturbation without any visual content is totaly okay if you do it from time to time. and i have same thing like u, i used porn to reassure and do compulsions because of my hocd. i am trying to get away from it but its a slow process. my problem is i have been watching porn since a kid so it will take a bit more time to crack thst nut. :)
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@sn3k I started watching porn in the end of 6 grade where it was summer time. Yes, it was a addictive, but I told myself “no more” and I’m so proud that I stop. But hocd only hitted me after I stoped porn, and now I’m never going to the site cause my triggers will be high and I would be depressed. Didn’t know it was that easy to watch porn. They even have premium version, damnn they be making money like drugs.
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@Peridottttt there is a very interesting science behind brainchemistry and how it reacts with stimulation on porn. its like the human brain can get so many sex in so short time and its always there just a step away. you might be right about the pornindustry - similar to the tabaco and alcohol lobby. kind of sad.
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@sn3k Don’t you think that porn is so easy to access and addictive that it’s hard to find someone who has a healthy brain?
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