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well in my case, i think I somehow enjoy the thoughts but then get anxiety ? But it’s not about how i’ll be perceived
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for me, no not at all
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Can I ask some personal questions? Like have you always only had feelings for the same sex?
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@advice? yeah sure :), and yes I always have
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@SofiiaClarke Thank you! & When it came to the Opposite sex, did you ever crush on them or like the idea of being with them? Or did it just make you feel uncomfortable?
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@advice? i’ve never had a crush on someone who was a guy ever, I have no desire whatsoever to be with a guy so yes, I can say it would make me feel uncomfortable
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@SofiiaClarke Okay, thank you for replying!
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@advice? no problem :)
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I question my sexuality some but it's never been an obsession. I'm always sure I'm queer.
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Can I ask why you question it ? In what way?
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@advice? Sexuality changes, and that's natural. Sometimes I just have to think if it's changed enough that I think a new label applies. I've identified as straight, pan, bi, lesbian, and queer. All were valid at one point.
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@Sparrowpraxis So your saying your brain has physically changed on a dime and lost and gained grey matter on a whim? Hmmmm sounds awfully fishy to me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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@TheReptileCyka I don't know what you're on about but that's not how that works. As it happens your brain does change, but not on a dime. But I doubt that's the issue here with you.
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@Sparrowpraxis Can you give me a non-biased scientific paper on sexual orientation changing please?
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@TheReptileCyka No, I don't want to
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@Sparrowpraxis Why not? Because there’s no such thing?
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@TheReptileCyka No, because I have better things to do than provide homophobes with resources that don't exist because the money needed for such a study would never be given to an LGBT study. And even if I did give you such resources, it wouldn't be enough. You'd find holes in the study, or say it's not biased, or whatever. My account should be enough, along with the countless other people who have echoed my words. Don't darken my notifications again.
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@Sparrowpraxis So because I’m disagreeing with you I’m quoted as being a homophobe when I personally think you more homophobic because you imply people “turn gay” when that in itself is implying homosexuality is a illness that can be spread? When it’s a completely natural thing in the animal kingdom and isn’t changeable. And just because you have an account is stupid, I can say I’m a dragon, where’s your proof I’m not a dragon? Your personal account could be completely fabricated for all anyone knows, or could’ve been altered. You have absolutely no proof at all. Oh and there have been studies on this, and it’s not in your favor.
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@Sparrowpraxis Honestly I don’t think he was being homobic. He basically doesn’t believe that sexuality changes. And maybe it’s just not for all people, just for some. Sexuality isn’t fluid or everyone and I’m sure everyone is aware of that. So please just respect everyone’s decisions, opinions, and personal experiences.
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hi i’m a lesbian! and i have known im a lesbian for a really long time and i have a sweet girlfriend of 1 year. it all started when i saw this masc lesbian come out as straight, after that i had my guy friend over and he’s a sweet guy and he was flirting with me (he didn’t know i was gay) im not sure but i panicked and my brain froze and i was like “do i like him”, ever since my brain has been over worked 24/7 for 2 months now and it’s spiralling constantly. im trying to control it but all these thoughts are so disgusting and my brain tries to put him and i in scenarios that make me uncomfortable and i feel panic and i hate it. i have always been comfortable being a lesbian and i still am comfortable as a lesbian, but i dislike these thoughts i have about him and men and i want it to be over. i do not want to experiment with men even tho my brain is telling me i do, i find it disgusting and i dread it, i have a sweet girlfriend and i want to be with her forever, i do not imagine anything with any men and i hate these thoughts. im scared of becoming bisexual/straight one day and i hate hearing sexuality is fluid. its a whole mix of comphet and so-ocd
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Is anyone here actually gay and has/had sexuality or religious ocd? I don't have it at all haha I'm a lesbian myself without socd or religious ocd but I'm just curious: what's it like and how did you deal with the whole "biggest fear coming true" thing?
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I have a lot of trouble with my sexuality. I’ve been trying to figure out my sexuality for years. I’ve dated a man, and I wasn’t really into the whole time. And since then I’ve thought that maybe I’m a lesbian because I’m attracted to women, which I know for sure. But then my brain spirals, I constantly think back ti memories with my ex, how I felt with him, I check how it makes me feel. I often google to see if other lesbians have felt similar, I ask ChatGpt over and over again. I feel like I have to be 100% certain or that im faking for attention, or thst I’ll end up with a man. I guess im wondering has anyone else felt like this ? What’s been your experience how do you manage it?
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