Are any straight girls here turned on by boobs/naked women in porn? Does this mean I’m gay???

Me too. We haven’t had sex in forever because I’m terrified. Last time we did I kept having intrusive thoughts about women and I just stopped

@nervousanchovy99 ME TOO! that’s what happens to me :(((( oh my gosh it’s awful. We used to have sex so much and now we never do cuz my mind just goes right to women

@Ocdandme123 I’ve had this for so long that I can’t even remember good sex. This all started because I couldn’t orgasm so I was like welp I guess that means I’m gay. And now sex sucks

@nervousanchovy99 I can’t orgasm either and never have! oh my gosh ???? it makes me think I’m gay too! Omg. I heard a girl say she never did until she was with a girl. And I feel so hopeless. This is awful

@Ocdandme123 If it makes you feel better there’s lesbians who can’t orgasm either

And I’ve liked guys my whole life. Like I remember as a kid telling a guy we’re gonna get married. Telling guys they’re cute. Liking boys in sixth and seventh grade and all that stuff. Even now I recently got my heartbroken by a guy.

Does your ocd go “why do you even find him attractive? Are you attracted to him? What’s even attractive about guys?” And I’m like “I can’t even find a guy attractive anymore darn.”

@anne_powell Yes, I get that. But historically, I couldn’t just look at a nude man and get turned on. But I could by boobs. Now I’m convinced

@nervousanchovy99 Is this abnormal?? Should I just see a naked man and get turned on???

@nervousanchovy99 No not necessarily. I think it just depends on the person. Personally when I see a nice looking shirtless guy I get really smiley and giddy and am like “ooooo he’s nice”. That’s all I would say. But even I feel like I’m in denial at times and although all this stuff with girls disgust me, I get scared that I’m faking disgust. But I’ve never had sex and have never kissed a girl so ya. But I have kissed a few guys and liked it each time, but now I’m scared to cause I’m scared I won’t like it (and I keep thinking about one kiss where I went in for the peck and he went in for the make out and his entire mouth went around mine lmao).

@anne_powell This whole thing scares me a ton and ya

@anne_powell Yeah i read all the comment and im the same. I hate that it had so much impact i wish incould be turned on by boobs but still be all in dreamland when i thought of the boys i liked. I wish i fidnt give a fuck and moved on but i do and i give many fucks. Anyway i think that we can be turned on by girls but we are romantically attravted to guys which means that we want to love and marry guys but we just are thrned on by boobs?? Becaude lets be real, were we turned on when we saw boob in real life? I wasnt. I only got turned on when t was on tv, porn, movies, anything on a screen. So idk i think thst means something. I just hste that it makes me so hard to believe that im straight if all the attraction to guys i had is gone. Im only left with being thrned on by woman and thats what makes it so hard to say im straigjt. Littersly the whole problem is the lack of attraction to guys, if that would be back i would get my old self back to. But it seems mf impossible.

@hocdgirlsummer Same. And boobs just don’t turn me on. In real life or over a show. It’s more I’m scared imma get turned on then I get anxiety. I’m so over this, like omg. I just want it to go away and my attraction to boys to be back.

@anne_powell I feel u, im afraid it isnt thst easy. I rlly dont know what to like do to get it back.

@hocdgirlsummer Yup I need major help lol I’m so depressed and scared by this thing. I’m scared I actually want to date another girl but I am fighting it. Do you feel like that sometimes? :/

@hocdgirlsummer It’s like anything I find any reassurance in my ocd take and distorts that to make sure I can’t

@anne_powell I do for sure. Like I actually think about being woth girls so so much in my head that it’s normalized now and that my brain thinks I could be with one. But I don’t want to act on it. I don’t want to be with a girl but it just stays in my fucking head that I could be. And scares me that I will want to be over a guy. I’m scared of a possibility that I will like an interaction with a girl like me just touching or a hug or something. And I’m absolutely petrified if I got in a situation where a girl kissed me, I get scared I would like it and that would make me realize.

@Ocdandme123 me2!! Feeling so guilty towards my bf

@elleeen So guilty. I had the worst panic attack last night after reading about a bi girl and how she struggled figuring out who she was and she ended up marrying a girl. And my boyfriend just help me so tight and let me cry and told me everything is okay. I feel like I’m failing as a gf ?

@Ocdandme123 Held*

@Ocdandme123 And I struggle to have sex with him. We don’t do it and I fucking hate myself.

@Ocdandme123 its good exposure to do it. you shouldnt do it if you dont want to :) But when you do just do it, and let the intrusive thoughts come and go. I feel like im failing as a girlfriend too, and i hate it. I cry everyday

@elleeen Me too. Every damn day.

Same. My ocd is screaming that i have to try it out, and giving me urges. I have never had urges before, and im freaking out. What should i do?

@elleeen I don’t know? this sucks. I just want to be with my fiancé and now I’m like shit I don’t want to be with a woman but I keep getting uncomfortable groin sensations when I think about sex with a woman even though it fucking scares me

@nervousanchovy99 Same. I hate this, i dont know what to do. Im freaking out.

@elleeen I have been with a woman before sexually and I still feel like I need to try it out like that wasn’t enough so idk if it would even help :/ but I did stuff with her a couple years ago when I was drunk and when I had no doubt in my mind I was still 100% straight. So I think I get irges to now because it might be different now that I have the thought I could be lesbian in my brain :(

@Ocdandme123 I think the wise choice is not to give in to the urges. It will only make it worse.

@elleeen Correct! I don’t want to give in to the urges but I for sure get them. I told my bf worse comes to worse we have a three some. But I doubt I could ever actually go through with that. Don’t want my man touching anyone else ha..

@Ocdandme123 This might only strengthen it! Be careful!!

@nervousanchovy99 i wont give in. Im so anxious, and it feels like im getting arousal. But i know its fuuiled by anxiety

@nervousanchovy99 I know! I won’t do it.

@soonocdfree yes. It feels like that, but im overthinking it. I hate this, want to die.

I wasn’t either, tmi! But I do get aroused when I see a penis.

Yeah im the same, sixpack didnt make me turn on but it was like attractive to see thm u know it was lik okaaay so hes tskig care of himself thats attracrive. I could litteraly dream away when i thought of being in a telationship with a guy. I couldnt with a girl. I truly think this is the difference between sexual and romantic sttraction. Romantic is who you wanna love and live with and who you wanna marry and sexual attraction is who you get turned on by. So for me i got turned on by woman but i didnt care because i didnt want to be with woman. But i did want to be with men and i knew that if a man touches me i would defenitly get tunred on so i didnt care about the sixpack or nit beig turend on when a guy was naked or wateva. Its all about who you fall in love with, trust me when u fall in love with a men u get turned on by his personality, why u think ugly guys get good lookign girls, its the personality that speeks to us. Its a very normal thing to not be sexually into a hot guy immediately. U can be attracted but not sexually attracted, that comes later i feel like. For some woman its different and for some its like this. I know this is just reassurence but u need to know that this is the truth and that its acrually very normal. Sadly hocd got in our heads and words wont convince us to be confident and straight. This really is a mindgame we gotta fight to get rid of it

@hocdgirlsummer Yeah, I mean I’m definitely turned on by men when I’m near them but

Like I can’t believe that not being turned on by abs is normal??

@nervousanchovy99 Hang in there! Day by day we can all inch our way to the light at the end of the tunnel! So many people just keep telling me to focus on my love and attraction to my bf and all the good qualities he has. You should too :)