How does one know they are a lesbian

@SAGUI I think that women are more attractive then men in general, i domt look at women much in terms of when im out i may think she looks pretty but dont give it mich thought, alrthough when i was younger i would get obssesed with wanting to look or act like certain girls it was really unhealthy actually. With men i dont just look at a naked man and get turned on, they have to smell good, nice eyes, smile and the way they act makes me feel bubbly. I used to watch alot of corn mainly lesbian corn so when i see a naked woman im almost instantly aroused groinaly.

@O.C.D 123 The thought of a man being domiannt and just like overall large really appeals to me, that might sound weird

@O.C.D 123 Ok, so I have to know: do you want to be lesbian or straight? If you want to be straight you sound like you like men. Of course, you could possibly be bisexual. And it’s not weird. You’re not a minor, right? I don’t want to discuss sexual topics with a minor.

@SAGUI No im not a minor, i dont want to be a lesbian nothing wrong with it of course and i have lesbian friends i get kinda sad at the prospect that i will never expereince true love and desire with a man or not have good intamcy with a man.

@O.C.D 123 I do panic at times about things in the past that could indicate i liked women and it used to make my heart drop

@SAGUI What do you identify as?

@O.C.D 123 Honestly… nothing. Sometimes I think I might be aromantic or asexual. Especially when I look at Trump’s photo. But then there are moments where I genuinely just cannot believe a woman has the ability to look so freaking gorgeous. Like Anne Hathaway or Kat Dennings. Or like Sabrina Carpenter. And then there’s moments where I wonder if I’m straight because I see Ryan Gosling and I’m like, “Damn. I mean, I think I’m straight but maybe he’s the exception.” And then I see Clark Kent from MAWS and I’m like, “Daaaaammmnnn. He’s built good. Like, no homo but he’s built good.” And earlier today I saw a dude on the bus and I was like, “Damn. I think he looks better than some of the girls here. Not that any of these beautiful women are ugly but I think he’s got them beat. Would I kiss him? Probably not.” And then there’s this one dude I know who has this great hairstyle and moustache and I’m like, “Wow. This is a very attractive man. How is he not taken?” But I would say I’m straight.

@O.C.D 123 Sorry, I went a little crazy. It’s just very complicated.

@SAGUI I love this explanation because I feel like I get this

@Cat-Mom You’re welcome. Glad I could help. It’s a spectrum. Like, I sometimes I wanna spoon guy. Doesn’t mean I’m sexually attracted to them. I sometimes imagine cuddling my best friend. Doesn’t mean I’m bisexual. I wouldn’t wanna have sex with him or kiss him or anything.