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It is difficult to break the cycle at first. The key is start allowing those thoughts to occur without you questioning them or trying to make yourself feel better. When they happen, try to let them flow through and even say things like, I might be attracted to girls, but that’s okay. You will feel very anxious at first, but the longer you continue, your anxiety will start to subside and the thoughts will seem silly.
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Hey, I have HOCD as well and it’s my only intrusive thought. I think I have other intrusive thoughts? But HOCD is the most noticeable and scary and convinced me that it isn’t OCD Because it’s my only OCD thought. So I feel relieved knowing I’m not the only person dealing with one OCD theme!! But ERP is super helpful and don’t dig into your past, it makes things worse!
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Omg its my only theme too thought i was the only one ??♀️
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Hang in there ladies we can get thru this ??
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Glad to know I’m not alone!
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It may be better to ease into exposing yourself so that you don’t overdo it. Your therapist can help you structure an exposure hierarchy so you can start small and work your way up. Hang in there! If it wasn’t OCD you wouldn’t be feeling so unwell and anxious!
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Yes, it does! I honestly can’t look at my past crushes anymore with ocd saying it wasn’t real
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Definitely not alone girl ? We got this!
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wow this is absolutely identical to my HOCD. i had never had these thoughts before until one day i looked at my friend and thought that she was so pretty, because she is, and it went into a downward spiral from there. but therapy really helps. talking about it really helps. and there’s a lot of ups and downs, right now i’m kinda dealing with a down because it happens sometimes, but you have to just keep going. HOCD doesn’t have to be around forever, it can go away!!! i always feel like mine tricks me into thinking one thing and not the other, like it purposefully tries to get me to like certain things when i know i don’t. then i go into a cycle of in denial where it tells me i actually did like it i just won’t admit it. but i know that’s it’s just my ocd and not me, but learning to separate the two is hard
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this makes me feel so much better that so many people have commented on this and they deal w the same thing i do
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Yes guys it makes me feel amazing to know I’m not alone. I know we are all going to be ok even though it’s tough now??
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Exactly it makes me feel a lot better knowing other people go through this. Do you ever feel like your HOCD tricks you into remembering things differently? Or that you have feelings for someone? It’s so cruel!
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Yeah it’s a great feeling to know we aren’t alone
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If anyone wants, im in a group with other girls dealing with HOCD, ROCD, etc. on Instagram. Add me @nadselhag and I can add anyone to the group!
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I’m 25 and never ever thought this before my soocd relapse. I have a bf of 5 years. Never been a high libido kinda girl. Don’t get me wrong I do get turned on by my bf but not like every day you know? - That had always been in the back of my head, is this normal and ok? But my ocd has latched onto the most scariest what if EVER. My brain is now saying How do you know you won’t prefer to sleep and kiss girls if you haven’t tried it: and it’s that unknown that is scaring the shit out of me. I DONT AND NEVER HAVE wanted to sleep / kiss a girl. But now my intrusive thoughts is all I think about!!! I don’t want I don’t want I don’t want??? So why does my brain think BUT WHAT IF??? I know ocd thrives off uncertainty which is why I think this is happening? But I don’t wanna find out or work it out because all I want is to be with my bf and marry him!! Is this just the epitome of OCD?
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Sorry long post. Anyone feel like now they’re just in extreme denial. Like when I was little I noticed guys more than girls in movies and was more drawn to them. I remember changing my mindset to switch that. 98%of my life has been straight until recently. I felt drawn to some guys but never thought of it sexually. Always had girl crushes dreams and porn. Now I watch porn and I feel like straight takes longer and then I go and watch gay porn and feel nothing until I tell myself it’s two attractive dudes and love is love and imagine physical sensations and then it hits like suddenly. Like I have to convince myself it’s alright. Then when I try again I can do all that but feel nothing and then straight porn works. Idk if it’s just getting a fix or the first time works with anything or what but it’s confusing. On top of that I’ve felt girl relationships including my wife maybe miss something and a guy maybe matches that feeling that but then I feel like I’d be missing something without a girl or my wife. Idk I’ve had some rough times in life with male figures in my life but idk. I feel like I have to convince myself more and more that I’m straight even more than the first time I dealt with this. Can someone relate? Please
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I keep getting these groinal responses when I think about kids or see one and it's really distressing, I only just learned that OCD can make you feel that and it's not actually attraction but it's so hard to remember that and I've seen people talking about accepting uncertainty but I'm so scared to think "maybe it's attraction maybe it's not" instead of "no it's not attraction that's disgusting" and idk what to do
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