Anonymous
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CEC11CEC11
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I don’t think you’re bisexual. Side note, if you are, that’s totally ok too, but I don’t think that’s it. My guess is that you get turned on by the images because you know the sensations that are experienced by the women. You can anticipate what they are feeling and that’s turning you on.
AnonymousAnonymous
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Agreed. I don’t want to be with a woman and I don’t watch two women together. It’s women with men
sunshineinabagsunshineinabag
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I'm bisexual and the thought of being with women doesn't bother me or distress me. I think it's just OCD. If you truly were you wouldn't be upset about it.
hate_ocd.123hate_ocd.123
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I’m scared it doesn’t bother me and I’m just acting like it does. But the thought of doing anything literally puts dread in my heart :(
AnonymousAnonymous
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@hate_ocd.123 Hey I think that’s definitely ocd here
bee232bee232
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I don’t really find men’s naked bodies arousing either, and I do find women’s arousing, and I’ve literally had sex with a woman and still prefer having sex with a man. For me, I prefer being touched by men, and I feel emotionally fulfilled by relationships with men and I’m unconsciously drawn to men, not women. which I feel is more important. Hope that keeps?!
Maria SavioMaria Savio
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You may be bisexual. There's nothing wrong with that. I had HOCD when I was younger and a few years ago actually experimented with a woman...yet it wasnt what I thought itd be. It was like kissing the back of my hand. Yet I still appreciate a beautiful woman when I see one, but i know that it doesnt do anything for me in reality. Its such a complex thing to explain i dont know if what I'm saying makes any sense but sometimes our mind makes so much out of nothing that our bodies react even tho it's not what we truly desire or are attracted to
hate_ocd.123hate_ocd.123
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What if our bodies react and our minds don’t? Like we don’t want it or enjoy it or even really care for it. But then I get groinal responses and I freak out. Like fake feelings from ocd and false attractions I heard is a thing.
AnonymousAnonymous
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@hate_ocd.123 I get that ALL THE TIME
Maria SavioMaria Savio
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It may just be groinal responses that you feel when you think about naked women which is another symptom of OCD
Ginger77Ginger77
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I get turned on by women but I'm no, but I don't think it means anything to get turned on by a girl my boyfriend talks about guys who are good looking.
IdkIdk
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You get turned on by women but you’re not bi or you are bi?
bee232bee232
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Helps not keeps
AnonymousAnonymous
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It did?
bee232bee232
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@Immorethanocd Also, I shared this with my mom before (who’s been married to my dad for 26 years) and she was like “yeah no duh peniss are ugly and boobs are pretty” and trust me she’s 100% straight ?
NyluxNylux
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I think ye just bisexual, hun
AnonymousAnonymous
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But I don’t want to be with a woman, and I want to be with my boyfriend.
AnonymousAnonymous
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@Immorethanocd And even worse, I can’t get turned on by looking at naked men. So is this even bisexuality at this point
NyluxNylux
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You can be bisexual and remain with your partner. And maybe you were just denying your sexuality when you were younger (or if you're young, you're just understanding your sexuality)
AnonymousAnonymous
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I don’t think I was though? Like I’ve always been open with myself and wanted to be with/make out with a man and the thought of being bi makes me so scared I really don’t feel like it’s my identity
AnonymousAnonymous
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Okay but when do I never feel attracted to women I meet or look at their bodies or anything and person. And right now i feel like crying and throwing up, I really do not want to be with a woman
Maria SavioMaria Savio
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Then you just answered your own question. This is an OCD thing and its feeding on your fears. Next time you feel this or start to have doubts take a deep breath and tell yourself that this is an intrusive thought and try not to give any meaning to it
AnonymousAnonymous
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@Maria Savio Do I need to be turned on just by looking at naked men to be in love with a man
Maria SavioMaria Savio
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@Immorethanocd Not at all. Ask yourself this do men turn you on at all? How does your body react when you are getting intimate with your man?
AnonymousAnonymous
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@Maria Savio I like it!
Ginger77Ginger77
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bi*
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