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- ocdsurvivorem
- Date posted
- 4y ago
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- FathomableFathomable
- Date posted
- 4y ago
Definitely tell her. My therapist has 4 clients with POCD. I guarantee all 4 of them have talked groinal responses, because the obsessing about whether your genitals feel anything in order to gain new information to know how to judge yourself is a pretty big part of the POCD cycle. The responses appear and are noticed more because you're anticipating them. Trust me, it's your OCD-shame telling you that you're likely to be judged or misunderstood, and your OCD-guilt telling you that you would deserve it because you don't know *for sure* that your groinal responses are just groinal responses. Truth is OCD therapists aren't in it to judge you, they're there to help you to get out of the loop of doubt so you can develop some clarity.
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- ocdsurvivoremocdsurvivorem
- Date posted
- 4y ago
Hey everyone! I told her and she had NO idea what I was talking about but she wasn’t judgemental and she said just because she hasn’t heard about it doesn’t mean it’s weird and that it makes sense. So things worked out in the end but I definitely had a panic attack after telling her ?
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- FathomableFathomable
- Date posted
- 4y ago
That sounds like a good outcome! I imagine she will do some reading about it so it's great that she will be educated more about some of the nuances of POCD. Good job!
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- RSMsRSMs
- Date posted
- 4y ago
It’s a challenge, I allowed it to come up naturally during my conversation so that the delivery of the message felt authentic to me. There’s no rule that says you have to disclose all of your symptoms right then an there. You are also building a relationship with your therapist. Ease into your own process. It is your process. Everyone else here is going through more or less similar things. Ease in.
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- RSMsRSMs
- Date posted
- 4y ago
and* sorry for the typo.
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- Wildcat14
- Date posted
- 5y ago
So I’ve had some anxiety crop up related to POCD this week. Intrusive thoughts, etc. it’s happened once before but I wasn’t educated on OCD then or seeing my therapist so I’ve never talked about it. I’m terrified to tell my therapist because I’m terrified of being reported. I’ve never done anything harmful or even WANTED to do anything harmful. I am NOT a danger and I know it! I just want help dealing with the thoughts but am scared to share in therapy. Anyone else experience this?
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- @Lulu
- Date posted
- 4y ago
Hi all, I have an ERP question. I have POCD and I am terrified I would enjoy harming a child, particularly young girls. When I practice exposure I get several things: fear, dread, negative talk AND the big one, a very intense, very real groinal response. I often obsess that if get rid the fear/anxiety, I am left with the thoughts and the grional response. Which You can imagine I fear. Like, the only thing that separates me from a pedofile is my fear, why would I get rid of it? Regardless, I still experience some relieve after practicing exposure but I am left with a groinal response that stays lingering all day and eventually becomes a trigger. Anyone else experiences this? Any suggestions to work trough this in ERP?
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- rainbowiris
- Date posted
- 1y ago
Gross compulsion
I have a disgusting compulsion that I’m too afraid to tell anyone (even my therapist) about. It has to do with a bodily function. I need some courage to tell her in my appointment today so that we can work through ERP with it. I’m afraid that she’ll call me gross like my previous therapist did when I told them about my avoidance with brushing my teeth (now fixed, thanks to current therapist). I have an ingrained distrust of doctors. How do I tell her what’s been going on?
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