if you don’t understand HOCD (sexual orientation ocd) , don’t comment something under someone’s post please... it doesn’t help it makes it worse. don’t tell them “just be who you are it’s not that bad it’s 2020” literally stop. don’t do that shit please ?

i literally had someone just say to me “what’s wrong with being bisexual? why do you wanna be straight so bad?” like excuse me???? this is why i always say people don’t take this theme seriously at all it’s fucking annoying. man i’m so pissed off at people like this.

@ocdear frrrr like it’s not helping, you’re just feeding it what it wants. And then you feel bad if you offended them and then the obsession goes even crazier

Agreed! Even though that's the last thing they want right now.

@okaaaylisa I’ve been doing ERP since this morning (when it spiked) and it has actually relieved me abit! But you need to keep it up, even though it’s horrible it actually helps!

i’m not hiding behind OCD wtf. you don’t know the half of what i’ve been through so don’t say that i’m using it as a compulsion. i know what my compulsions are and me telling my self “it’s the ocd” isn’t one of them. this is why i’m saying if you don’t get it, don’t say anything

@ocdear Lol. Dude I have it too. You’re not helping yourself by not accepting the thoughts. Once you “normalize” them you ll won’t be as anxious ( or combative as you are here). Accepting doesn’t mean you are what your thoughts say you are.

@Jay69420 i know how to deal with this. all i did was express a view that i see all the time of people telling people with HOCD to just “accept themselves and that’s they’re in denial” i see it on youtube, on reddit on HERE and i’m fucking sick of it so i don’t know why you feel the need to act like you know what i’m going through when you don’t. you don’t even ask me you just assume and i don’t appreciate that at all

@ocdear So what are you going to do about it? Yell into the void of the internet? Just try accept it and move on. You seem to be ignoring the fact that I am telling you I have SOOCD too. It has taken me over a year to get so normalcy into my life. I accepted that there’s is a chance I maybe something other than 100 percent straight, and I’m okay with it. Being mindful of the present, I am straight. But just like I don’t know if I’m going to die in the next hour, I don’t know if I’ll identify as that in a decade or whatever. And you should be okay with that. You should be okay with uncertainty.