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god i’m literally going through the same thing with my rocd. im crying everyday, multiple panic attacks everyday. it’s like logically i know none of my fears are real or could ever be real. i don’t even believe in the thoughts anymore! but the amount is anxiety i have is so goddamn crippling and debilitating. when i have these bad moments, it feels like i’m never ever gonna get better and i’d be better off dead. i don’t wanna die, i just want this suffering to end. i don’t know what to do anymore. i thought i had escaped this dark place because i was doing so good for the past couple of weeks but it has hit me full force and now i’m withering away again, stuck here with the same mindset. i know it feels like we’re gonna be this way forever, but seeing others recovery has given me so much hope. i my self have recovered from my hocd theme through self directed erp that i did for a couple of months. so it is possible to get over it! but it’s so painful and so scary. my rocd wants me to give up the fight and just break up with my boyfriend so i can put an end to this all but that’s a lie that i cannot give in to. ocd will just sneak it’s way into another part of my life, perhaps a new relationship (typing out the words ‘new relationship’ just almost made me throw up lmao). so we have to keep fighting. we are gonna have really really bad days! but in the end, we are fighting for a life free from ocd
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the amount of*** anxiety, sorry.
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@pure093 yes. we are going to get better.
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I'm so sorry :/ But hey, I believe you can fight through this. And I feel ya, I miss calling myself straight without stupid doubts telling me I'm not.
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Hey, I went through a similar episode some days ago - suicidal thoughts, exhaustion, obsessions 24/7... But after practicing acceptance I got way better. I still have anxiety and thoughts that bother me as soon as I wake up but I'm not depressed anymore and I can focus on what I like. You mention you have passions and goals - that's great! Try to accept your sexual orientation is not certain, and your brain will soon focus on those passions and goals again. I'm sure you're gonna get through this!
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So my OCD has been bad lately. I’ve been ruminating and obsessing over my sexuality again. And it just keeps getting worse. I hate it so much. I try to sit with the discomfort but then my ocd does the backdoor spike. And the groinal response is what keeps me looped. It SUCKS. I am not attracted to men, but my OCD is trying SO hard to convince me that I am. There have been days where I’m just so mentally exhausted that I “accept” what my ocd tells me and I just walk around a hollow, lethargic shell. But then I rethink it and I feel better. It feels like I can only find my TRUE self when I tire my nervous system out enough that it literally breaks down and has me suicidal and hopeless. And then accepting my OCD’s “truth” (that I’m attracted to men) feels like a burden and a chore. I woke up today from an OCD dream, tried to go back to sleep, and my stomach kept cramping bc I was so anxious and ruminating over my intrusive thoughts. I’m starting to doubt it being OCD anymore. My brain is too tired to fight and cry about it anymore.
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Hey everyone, just wanted to post an honest update on where I’m at in my HOCD recovery. Right now, I'm stuck in what feels like a 24/7 spike — nonstop thoughts, intrusive sensations, identity doubts, and hyperfocus. The worst part? It feels real. Like I’ve “lost,” like I’ve accepted it, like I am gay. The thoughts don't feel like anxiety anymore — they feel like truth. I’ve been trying to do ERP, but the spike has been so constant I don’t even have to “do exposures” — the thoughts, feelings, and sensations are just there all day long. It’s like living inside an exposure. And it’s exhausting. BUT — here’s what I’ve been doing (and what I’m sticking to now): I say once: “These thoughts and feelings are welcome to stay for as long as they want.” I let the doubt, the feelings, the hyperfocus exist. I don’t check, test, or analyze — even when it screams at me. I live my life anyway — folding clothes, watching TV, eating, walking — with the storm in my head. Even when it feels 100% real. Even when I’m fully focused on it. I’ve stopped trying to feel better. I’m letting it all burn — and just not fixing it. It doesn’t feel good. It doesn’t feel right. It doesn’t feel like progress.
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- 19w
I don’t know what to do with this bs anymore. I’m crying again and again and again and again. I cannot describe how painful this is. I’ve recovered from every single OCD subtype expect this one. HOCD is so scary and it’s so incredibly scary how it feels so real. The issue with this subtype is how intertwined it is with feelings and sensations. I hate how it keeps latching onto the past and uses the past as proof. I don’t want it to be the truth. I don’t want to accept any possibility.
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