So I am openly bi-sexual. I am comfortable admitting my attraction toward both sexes. I guess my OBSESSION or BIGGEST fear is that I’m NOT attracted to women anymore. And proof of this is if I do not get aroused or respond sexually if I’m alone in bed with a women! This is HIGHLY distressing! Any input from anybody would be greatly appreciated. Working with a therapist through this app soon!!

Have you been seeing a therapist about all of this?

How are you doing with your OCD?

I started experimenting with men in my early 20’s and discovered I liked it. Still attracted to females too but just have a lot of anxiety before I get intimate with a women. A lot of obsessive thoughts and irrational fears! That’s why I’m seeking therapy!

@pure093 Never felt attracted to men until I was in my 20’s. I mean I’d have fantasies of hooking up with men in high school but was more into women!

@pure093 Well I often had ideas about genitals and what others looked like etc, can’t really say I was “attracted to men”. I just had a very high labido. But I fantazised a lot about girls in high school.

@pure093 I’m bi sexual because I am romantically into women but sexually into men! Hooking up with men seems to be easy and fits in with my lifestyle more! Though I do love boobs and kissing women and all that, I just have a harder time finding female sexual partners! And I have some trust issues and confidence issues with women.

@pure093 I am attracted to men but in a different way than I am women if that makes sense. I enjoy sexual activity with men but not romantically attracted to men. It’s complicated. This is why I started obsessing and had to get help via NOCD!