garden

Date posted: 5y

It scares me how literally every girl is obsessed with Harry Styles and Timothée Chalamet and I’m just... not. I can see they’re really attractive but I’m not that attracted to them. This is worrying because I always see things about ‘appreciating someone beauty but not being attracted to them’ as a sign as bisexuality or homosexuality. Like why don’t I like them if I know they’re hot and have good personalities? Surely I should be attracted to them?

Sexual Orientation OCD

princess🧚🏼‍♀️

Date posted: 5y

girl dont even worry about it !! i literally am not even slightly attracted to timothee chalamet, like i dont like feminine guys. This also proves that ur not influenced by society to like men, so the crushes u had on guys were real :)

starry duck

Date posted: 5y

ahh i didn't think about that ?

princess🧚🏼‍♀️

Date posted: 5y

@stars hahahah

garden

Date posted: 5y

I guess so. It’s just so weird to me how I find them attractive I’m just not attracted to them. Like it’s nothing specific about my ‘type’. I don’t care if a boy has muscles or if he’s feminine. So i can’t blame it on that :(

princess🧚🏼‍♀️

Date posted: 5y

@garden its just like u can find a woman « attractive » but not be « attracted to » her

garden

Date posted: 5y

@princess??‍♀️ But the thing is, I’ve often been told that straight people find women attractive but aren’t attracted to them (like you said). Yet here’s me doing that with these MEN. So... does that make me gay? If I’m doing the opposite?

princess🧚🏼‍♀️

Date posted: 5y

@garden girl nooo hahaha for example i find everyone in bts good looking, but i dont find them attractive, its just they r aesthetically cute. Its so normal dont worry about it

garden

Date posted: 5y

@princess??‍♀️ Thank you you’re right :) ?

princess🧚🏼‍♀️

Date posted: 5y

@garden anytime ?

starry duck

Date posted: 5y

I relate so much!! Like I was never that type of girl that had celebrity crushes.

princess🧚🏼‍♀️

Date posted: 5y

its because u still didn’t meet them. ur more influenced by personality and i guess ur much more realistic if that makes sense

garden

Date posted: 5y

Yeah! I’ve maybe had like 2 proper ones in my life, but they went quickly

garden

Date posted: 5y

@princess??‍♀️ That’s a good way to put it actually

pluralines

Date posted: 5y

hey i just wanted to chime in & say that i relate this as well ! ? they’re attractive, but not really attracted to them..personally had crushes on a few men + interested in dating them . ?

garden

Date posted: 5y

Thank you!

Anonymous

Date posted: 5y

I think Channing Tatum and Jason mamoa are just okay, I think preference is a thing. I’m not into muscles, but I don’t think everything has to mean as much as we make it mean

Anonymous

Date posted: 5y

I’m not into Harry Styles at all if that helps?

garden

Date posted: 5y

Hahahahaha thank you

Anonymous

Date posted: 5y

I find actors cute and get crushes after i see them in a role where they have a personality I would be into. You’re wayyy overthinking here. I got really upset during my first ocd episode because I wasn’t interested in magic mike. You sound like that right now? you’re fine, it’s ocd being a dick

starry duck

Date posted: 5y

I'm overthinking everything. it feels like i've never liked anyone :/

princess🧚🏼‍♀️

Date posted: 5y

@stars girl its just hocd !! thats what it does, it makes u overthink everything

Anonymous

Date posted: 5y

@princess??‍♀️ Seriously true!!

garden

Date posted: 5y

Omg I’ve literally obsessed over magic mike too?? that’s funny

garden

Date posted: 5y

And also thank you!

Anonymous

Date posted: 5y

@garden HAHA welcome to the OCD club

starry duck

Date posted: 5y

@Yikes1000X That bugs me because I'm not like other girls who have a bunch of celebrity crushes. For me, it takes time to develop a romantic attraction.

Anonymous

Date posted: 5y

@stars That’s okay too! There is no one size fits all. Your OCD is imposing strict guidelines where literally none exist

starry duck

Date posted: 5y

Did you ever had crushes but you were interested in dating them? Like I have gotten those and I get thoughts about them and now i'm scared. Like I've only ever wanted to be in a relationship with my current crush :/ so it's weird lol

garden

Date posted: 5y

Yes I have!

abdul8

Date posted: 5y

those boys have a very specific look and it’s very normal to not be into it

tk46799

Date posted: 5y

Ew both of them are not attractive to me lol

garden

Date posted: 5y

Or even just any celebrity for that matter. I’ve never massively been attracted to one. In my personal life I’ve liked guys though

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