Can someone tell me when people say it feels real what do they mean exactly? At what point is it feel real or denial

@No_brainier99 that’s a good thing but usually with ocd it comes with a lottttttt of anxiety

@No_brainier99 so do feel attracted to the same sex like emotionally and physically? or are you anxious thinking of that. and my thoughts tell me to come out too i have a bf and they tell me to come out to him :(

@No_brainier99 How long has this been going on for?

@No_brainier99 it’s okay but how does denial feel like bc just seeing the word “denial” freaks me out and makes me anxious but i have anxiety and depression because of it my thoughts tell me to come out and make me sooooo fucking anxious my heart flutters and my stomach drops. does that happen to you??

@No_brainier99 does it sound like i’m lesbian?? i’m sorry but i cry over this stuff a lot like every single day i’m scared i hate this

@No_brainier99 you’re right and deep down i know that i love my boyfriend and that’s all there is to it

@No_brainier99 This is true, have hocd and i I know I’m not gay or bi, but ocd can confuse you even thohhh it’s thoughts, people with ocd hate there thoughts but gay like them

@HolleyMaeG The fact your asking is ocd, your anxious because your worries of losing your identity

@No_brainier99 What’s your struggle

@10lewis10 it hurts to think that i don’t mind the thoughts. it doesn’t matter what you think of the thoughts what makes you gay is if you act on it. i was addicted to lesbian porn i guess that why the thoughts don’t gross me out most of the time when the thoughts come i get super anxious

@No_brainier99 Sorry to hear that mate, can I ask what’s your feelings towards the opposite and why you on this app

@HolleyMaeG They gross me out but my groin moves sometimes to a thoughts or scene of same sex but it doesn’t feel good at all but can convince I want to act on them but I suppose if the groin gets blood flow it’s gonna feel like that.

@No_brainier99 i’ve never had a crush on a girl only once. it was desperation i was looking for love. it wasn’t even sexual at all i hadn’t been around boys i was homeschooled up until august of last year i went to high school and then dated boys but still kept the label “bi” but it never felt right i always changed it always but i’ve never grown up liking girls at all

@10lewis10 yeah and it’s way different for girls too i don’t want to be gay it scares me so bad

@No_brainier99 Do you fancy the opposite gender? How’s you know it’s not hocd and it ms denial

@No_brainier99 Yh but do you fancy women? Because if you do then your not gay your either bi or straight

@No_brainier99 Yes I get you but you just said you fancy women, gay men don’t fancy women, people can have sex with people they don’t fancy but you just said you fancy women so your probably bi, do you fancy men?

@No_brainier99 That could be ocd though tbh on your other post you sound ocd but obvs dint take my word for it

@10lewis10 Wtf r u saying bi