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The real thoughts are your own thoughts. OCD thoughts are thoughts about actions you would never act on. If you have a thought that causes you enough stress that you have to do a compulsion to try and forget it: that’s the OCD thoughts.
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Thank you It’s just felt so real, like I’m lying to myself if I think that it is OCD...
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Believe me, in that moment that fear and that thought feel so real and it’s so scary. People with OCD are not crazy. We realize that the thoughts we are having are irrational but for some reason we can’t handle the anxiety that accompanies that thought. Tell yourself: I am not my ocd thoughts. These are thoughts I cannot control. It might help you to write down your worst thoughts and triggers, so you can see them written out. This may help you to realize how irrational the thoughts are and that they are not real.
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There is a problem that these thoughts do not seem as irrational ones..
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there is no difference between an “ocd” thought and a “regular” thought. If you had an ocd thought without any emotion or reaction, you wouldn’t have OCD. OCD is the reaction to the thoughts. Thoughts aren’t the problem, your response is. Don’t bother trying to categorize your thoughts, just live your values.
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Dariamerchant: if a certain thought or certain thoughts cause you extreme anxiety, those are the thoughts that your OCD (and fight or flight response) tricks you into believing are going to cause danger. It might help you to read up on your fight or flight response and what part of the brain controls this. It might help you understand that your extreme feelings in the moment are your body’s natural reaction to fear and anxiety. We with OCD tend to overdramatize our thoughts and we end up believing the thoughts are true because we thought about them for a brief second. Like we can control the world with our thoughts. We cannot!!
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I’ve been thinking a lot about how OCD changes the way we see ourselves, but I recently realized that I am not my thoughts. Just because a thought pops up doesn’t mean it’s true or that it defines me. I’ve started learning how to see OCD for what it is—just a disorder trying to trick me—and I’ve become stronger in dealing with it. Has anyone else here had a similar realization? How do you handle these thoughts when they show up?
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Does anyone have any advice for how to know the difference between ocd and real feelings/thoughts? Sometimes an intrusive thought will come in and I immediately know it’s ridiculous and I can just leave it alone and it won’t bother me but other times I really really don’t know. It’s when ocd hijacks and twists my real feelings and thoughts and tries to manipulate me into believing they’re something they’re not or something that doesn’t align with my true morals or intentions. But since it’s twisting and mixing with real feelings I get so confused and scared. Everything gets jumbled and I feel like I can’t trust myself or my own mind. Yet other times and other topics I can laugh off and push away just fine. Make it make sense. And then I start to think well maybe I don’t have ocd at all and I’m just in denial because I don’t want to accept that these scary/concerning things are true about myself. Or maybe that’s just the ocd talking.
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I suffer from religious ocd. My only goal in life is to live in God's will and to serve Him - to live and enjoy His eternal purposes & His presence. Jesus Christ is my life. That is my only desire on this earth, this short trip into eternity, and it's being stripped by ocd thoughts and intrusive thoughts 24-7. I have read many times that ocd can 'feel real', and this is true, our minds lie to us because of fear and anxiety we can't and were never meant to carry. I have begged and tormented myself in every way to find an answer from God. I think His answer may be that this is OCD, but I'm not sure. I started therapy again because I am so exhausted and this had stolen so much of my life in a spiral of negativity, depression, and constant anxiety & intrusive thoughts. I have spent about 2 years trying to figure out if my thoughts are real or not, especially with ocd it can deceive so easily as a spiritual matter when in reality it is just a thought, which is confusing and scary to say the least. Can anyone share their experiences with this sensation? No matter what the theme is... Thank you & Praying for your comfort
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