Okay so basically, now that my HOCD is gone...I’ve actually discovered on the side that I’m bisexual!

Omg so true definitely never understood persons coming in like that and announce they are XYZ of what they feared and had ocd with, i can't believe someone who suffered with ocd can do that without thinking of the thrigger it can be???

I’m sorry if this upset you..my point was that my ocd was wrong and I overcame it to understand who I truly was

@honiedewz not tryna be ignorant but how was it ocd ? if you turned out bi

@Jas I was in a cycle of obsession over my sexuality and worried I was lying to myself no matter what I settled with

@honiedewz Yeah but your post can be sooooo trigerring :(:( and i don't even have hocd irkrkr. Thats amazing for u but take care to how u formulate the posts! I think it would rather be better to show that you get out of the obsession and u feel great and happy whatever the result was which is great !! Bc im scared your post just tend to reinforce the -need to know- and anxiety circle to those who are still going through anxiety and ocd...

@honiedewz shit that’s basically what im going through , im prolly not even straight :(

@jj19 It I'd a positive thing to celebrate successes. Even if that success can be triggering to other people. Community members are responsible for not doing comoulsions with each other. We are not responsible for not triggering obsessions, because literally anything can trigger an obsession for someone

Thank you for your support ☺️

Honestly I was willing to accept whatever I was—I was just worried I was lying to myself no matter the label. But the experience is different for everyone

@honiedewz i’m not willing to accept that yk? like i’m screaming and crying every single day because of it. i’m worried that this is all true i’m so scared

@holley That’s terrible you are experiencing that. I was in the same state too. The feeling of not being in control of somethigg Nd or completely sure is what upsets me. But that was my experience, and I hope you overcome your obsession too

It’s not! Just that particular obsession

@honiedewz so you have hocd , and you’re bi as well ?

@Jas or other topics idk

@Jas but how did you know

@Jas yeah how did you know?

@Jas Yes. I was afraid I was lying to myself for anything I felt. It was all so confusing. It brought me to the point where it was all I thought about, upset about any possibility. Now that I have overcome that obsession I am secure in my identity and recognize my ocd for what it is. I was scared of being gay, but also scared of being straight because I thought I was lying to myself. But now I have figured it out.

@honiedewz but i’m not scared of being straight. it’s like when i cry i’m like i don’t want to be gay or bi the fear of accepting either of those too makes me anxious and even reading this did too!

@holley Holley, honiedewz is talking about THEIR experience. Not yours. Interrogating their experience will not alleviate the doubt you feel about yours