My sister abused me when I was 6 years old. When she was confronted with a simple question of " do you recall..." She blows up. When I all I wanted was a simple conversation. She calls me delusional, master of manipulation, board on line sociopath, tells me I need to Google a mental health illness called pathological liar and a demon who she doesn't want her kids to be around. She said I'm no longer welcomed in her home or in her space. Thank god my mom and my older sister support. My brother who didn't who didn't know about the abuse but knew something was going on use to protect me take me places and tell me how one day I'll be big enough to beat her up and she'll never pick on me again. Is mutual in this situation, but told me and my mom that we need to stop "picking on her because she just has a baby and she's postpartum". I get being mutual but that just hurt me so bad. Because when I little I saw him as a protector when noone else did. I know I shouldn't but I feel betrayed. Does postpartum give her a pass? The crazy thing is after the abuse I idolized my sister I wanted to be her sooo bad and have her approval on everthing. I still did up to this point. Now I work towards not wanting it. But its so hard. I just don't understand what going on with me right now. Sorry for the long read and hopefully it makes sense but I'm just extremely hurt rn. God be with me

Oh no I’m so sorry :( you don’t deserve that treatment at all postpartum or not, She did horrible things to you and she should own up to it instead of deflecting she sounds super toxic

Btw she's wasn't just "picking on me" she was really abusing me

I think it’s important to create as much physical and emotional space between you and your sister right now as possible. As much as you may want a conversation, acknowledgment, and apology, she’s clearly unwilling to do this, and the more you engage with her, the more emotional abuse she seems to be piling on you. You do NOT have to keep accepting this. And you cannot force her to see the errors of her ways. That will require a lot of hard self introspection on her part. And that’s her job to do, not yours. I’m glad your mom and older sister are supportive. I’m glad your brother protected you when you were young. You say he has a tendency to protect others, and in this case he’s choosing to protect her. It’s not necessarily right. But you cannot change this. And it may be better to have some temporary distance from him for a bit too. And yes, you have every right to feel betrayed. You can feel anything and everything you want to feel. But the only person you have control over here is you. Setting healthy boundaries here is your greatest tool. And while it’s difficult to start using boundaries with loved ones when we aren’t used to it, it will ultimately create a healthier and safer environment for you. Please protect yourself. Being postpartum doesn’t excuse abuses of the past or present. And it seems that it’s making her less willing than ever to engage with you in a respectful manner.