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People try to judge others and force their beliefs on others when they are insecure about themselves. We’re here to help each other not promote ourselves or beliefs. That’s how we succeed together.
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you’re right, ty for this
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while im cishet, im completely one hundred percent supportive of the lgbt community. i know that doesnt help but just know that for every one ignorant intolerable person, there are hundreds of caring and supportive people here too. im terribly sorry you had to suffer from someone being so mean. as a christian myself i think it's the most ridiculous thing ever when people use the bible etc as an excuse to be hateful. it's the stupidest thing ive ever heard. people may have their own beliefs and opinions but that does NOT give them a reason to be hateful towards another person for their existence, choices, or beliefs. on behalf of whoever was unkind with their words towards you, im deeply sorry. :(
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jesus christ. what is wrong with people? bruh i’m so tired of this shit lmao. just let people live how they want. it doesn’t affect anyone but them at the end of the day.. so why do bystanders care so much? i, myself, am apart of the lgbtq+ and get so pissed when people can’t just have an open mind. i realize some people just won’t change, but atleast try to understand people. even if they are different from you. and just because someone is from a different generation where people aren’t as accepting (boomers), isn’t an excuse. they’ve had plenty of time to come to their senses and become open minded. they just don’t want to. stubborn, ignorant, and close minded. seriously, what a terrible life it must be to live with so much hate in your heart that you can’t accept others for who they are. disgusting.
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People don’t have to accept anything they don’t want to. Period.
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@holley lmao. okay. just go ahead and don’t accept human rights
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@holley holley you just blew off they’re whole point with something completely unrelated
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@saltedcrabs but yeah @ make a change I agree, especially with ( TW for murder ) so many hate crimes happening atm it’s crazy
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I am not lgbt but have friends that are. Please don't let those types of people get to you. I know its hard. There are also many people out there who are by your side 100% some people just have nothing better to do than make others miserable.
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I'm bisexual and I'm proud ???
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I know it might hurt your feelings but just accept their beliefs and move on. Don’t fixate on something they said. I might not agree with the way you live your life, but you’re a human and so am I and i think that human to human that we should respect each other’s beliefs no matter what.
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Hey I get what you’re trying to say and thank you so much for responding, But transphobia- actually lgbt+ phobia in general is straight up hate speech which is why I just can’t accept it. Especially as a member myself and seeing how horribly it effects people especially trans-lives first hand even if it’s just something said on the internet
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@saltedcrabs Saying Christians are terrible people is also hate speech too. Calling black people the n word is too. Calling white people white trash also! There’s hate speech everywhere! You are who you are but just know that not everyone is going to approve of your lifestyle. That’s all.
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@holley I don’t think you’re fully grasping what I’m trying to say, calling someone white trash or saying that christians are bad even though it’s mean Definetely isn’t on the same level as being lgbt+ phobic, because of all the horrible history behind it that has happened and continued to happen to this day.
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@holley I don’t mean to bring topics like this up so TW in advance but christians and white people aren’t slaughtered or harassed on the daily for just being those things which makes them a bad thing to compare
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@saltedcrabs continues * oop ?
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So I’m always telling people who say I’m not getting any help or advice on my post that maybe those people just don’t know what to say or they’re afraid of possibly making the situation worse… well while that is completely understandable I feel like the amount of help/advice/ interaction has went down drastically on this app.. again not complaining I’m thankful for everyone on here but I just wanted to know if others have felt the same way
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This isn't OCD related at all, not even a little, and I'm really sorry, but I feel so panicked and overwhelmed right now and I need an outlet. So basically, I have this friend and we met online shortly after Christmas, not irl. We got on really well. I felt like I could tell them anything. Whenever I felt sad (which was quite often) they would help so much by just being there for me. Sending cute and reassuring tiktoks to me. I felt like they were the nicest ever. I told them stuff other people might judge me for. They never judged me and they never seemed judgemental. I started noticing some things, like their reposts on Tiktok. I noticed years ago they reposted something very anti LGBTQ+. It hurt, I couldn't understand it. I asked them about it, and they didn't exactly seem like they did hate LGBTQ+ people. I moved on, still unsure. I found recently they reposted something else. I wasn't sure whether this was super offensive, but the tone of the original post FELT offensive. I have a strong moral compass, and these things got to me so much because I'm attached to this person. And then today, I find another thing they reposted, this time about immigration. It had a strong racist tone. I know now that I need to cut them off. I don't want people like that in my life. It's one thing having different views, but I firmly stand by the idea that you should agree with those around you about things like this. But I'm so distressed. I feel so attached to them. None of this seems like them at all. They seem like such a kind, non judgemental person. I would sit waiting for their text. I would feel so happy to hear from them. We text non stop. We have loads in common. They never judged me. I thought I finally found someone who actually wanted to be my friend, who actually liked me. I'm going to feel empty and numb, and I'm trying not to cry while writing this. Who will I have? Nobody to expect a text from. Nobody to ask about my day. Nobody to send me cute pictures to cheer me up. I actually feel like I'll never get past this. I feel so lonely all the time and they were there for me when no one else was. I feel so numb and I'm terrified. Sorry again that this isn't OCD related. I just didn't know what to do.
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